In a relationship and liking someone else..., =[ Options

[AimeeLynn]

I like this guy at my work. He is basically my dream guy but bad thing is I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having a lot of dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf. I can't dump him because of his b-day coming up this Sunday. The main reason to why I'm with him was because my mom wanted me to go out with him.

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot


I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

Questions:
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?
Should we take a break after his b-day?
Is it wrong that I like someone else?

[carolannexbh]

I like this guy at work. He is basically my dream guy but I'm in a relationship with a guy that is not my type at all. I been having dreams of this guy at my work and not my bf at all.
Is my dreams trying to tell me something?

Good qualities of the bf:
-he has been good to me for the last 4 months we have been together
-always have dinner dates whenever out
-great personality
-very social
-my mom loves him being with me

Bad qualities of the bf:
-he drinks
-he had smoked weed but doesn't anymore but told me that he would in college
-kind of big
-moody
-pressures me to have sex with him a lot

I really do like him and use to love him.
But I have no idea anymore.

IMO, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. If he always pressures you to have sex with him, its not healthy. Does your mom know that he pressures you? I think that you should talk to him, if you havent already. And if this were my situation, I couldn't be with someone who wasnt my type. It just wouldnt work out for me. Its great that he has a nice personaliy and that he's social.
Guy at work:
If you really like him, talk to him. I honestly wouldn't do anything about this guy until you settle things with your boyfriend.

[illriginal]

IMO, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. If he always pressures you to have sex with him, its not healthy. Does your mom know that he pressures you? I think that you should talk to him, if you havent already. And if this were my situation, I couldn't be with someone who wasnt my type. It just wouldnt work out for me. Its great that he has a nice personaliy and that he's social.
Guy at work:
If you really like him, talk to him. I honestly wouldn't do anything about this guy until you settle things with your boyfriend.

Yeah but the sad part is... she's only been in the relationship for four months. She shouldn't even have a relationship if she's indecisive in the first place. People should have patience in gettin to know of one another. Instead of seeing how hot they are and how well dressed they are or how much money they have.