I need help once again... |
 Mar 25 2008, 12:59 AM
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Ok, as you guys remember I posted a topic a couple weeks back about me smoking one cig and how I told my gf that I don't smoke anymore n stuff. Well, after that incident she said that she doesn't trust me the same way she used to. She claims that she needs to create a barrier in which she can shelter herself from pain because she doesn't want me to hurt her again..however I have been trying so hard to prove to her that I do not smoke and that im telling the truth about things.
I really want her to trust me again..I have been trying so hard and I know she has noticed the changes that I have made, but it's still not enough for her.. Should I just give it some time and sooner or later she will trust me the same way? What do I do? |
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Mar 25 2008, 09:05 PM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
i think the best suggestion is to start being completely open with her about everything. your feelings, your thoughts, your views of things. if she's in the dark about all of those things then she'll come up with her own conclusions which will make things worse for you.
advice: women tend to over react about stuff if they dont get all of the info. |
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Mar 26 2008, 04:25 PM
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QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 10:05 PM)  i think the best suggestion is to start being completely open with her about everything. your feelings, your thoughts, your views of things. if she's in the dark about all of those things then she'll come up with her own conclusions which will make things worse for you. advice: women tend to over react about stuff if they dont get all of the info. Best advice for sure. Cuz it's damn true >.> |
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Edwinbarkhordarian I need help once again... Mar 25 2008, 12:59 AM
Kevinkatalyst QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 25 2008, 12... Mar 25 2008, 01:14 AM Synesthesia You just have to wait for more time -- a lot more ... Mar 25 2008, 11:18 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 25 2008, 01... Mar 25 2008, 11:36 AM Melie ummm...if she's flipping about you just smokin... Mar 25 2008, 02:23 PM
nguoicasison QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 03:23 PM) ummm... Mar 25 2008, 03:00 PM Melie QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 25 2008, 03:00 P... Mar 25 2008, 03:03 PM Edwinbarkhordarian There have been other issues of trust and stuff bu... Mar 25 2008, 08:59 PM |
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