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Melie
post Mar 10 2008, 09:04 PM
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lately my depression has been getting worse. i'm just curious as to how everyone else handles their depression if you have any. but if i'm the only one then oh well. _unsure.gif
 
 
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post Mar 25 2008, 02:44 PM
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well for right now, i'm still taking my meds and my hubby is coming home in like 2 weeks so i'm going to make an appt with my doc to start getting off of them then. my depression was post-partum and regular depression because our daughter was 2 months old when he left for iraq. she's now 15 months. as for friends, i do have one but we always seem to have a conflict of schedules because of our kids and their naptimes and stuff. but, i've been keeping myself busy with being on cb a lot and working on layouts and stuff.

yeah, there are times when my depression gets me like on sat it did. it was my b-day and i couldn't do anything for myself because my friend was sick with the flu so she couldn't watch our daughter and i actually had no idea of what i wanted to do on my b-day. it was pretty depressing so i spent it at home and slept most of the day away.
 
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post Mar 25 2008, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 03:44 PM) *
well for right now, i'm still taking my meds and my hubby is coming home in like 2 weeks so i'm going to make an appt with my doc to start getting off of them then. my depression was post-partum and regular depression because our daughter was 2 months old when he left for iraq. she's now 15 months. as for friends, i do have one but we always seem to have a conflict of schedules because of our kids and their naptimes and stuff. but, i've been keeping myself busy with being on cb a lot and working on layouts and stuff.

yeah, there are times when my depression gets me like on sat it did. it was my b-day and i couldn't do anything for myself because my friend was sick with the flu so she couldn't watch our daughter and i actually had no idea of what i wanted to do on my b-day. it was pretty depressing so i spent it at home and slept most of the day away.

congrats!! _smile.gif

hang in there.. _smile.gif ..

when you hubby come home.. let him take care the kid n u meet up with you friend n just hang out. shopping, barnes&noble, go to some track n just take a couple mile stroll.. then only the weekend.. tell you hubby to take you guys out to dinner. while you doin all that.. try n meet new ppl..

you know.. just say hi n such to random ppl.. like at library or work.. cuz grocery n other place just seem weird.. but there time that you get to know ppl at grocery store n such 2.. so it worth a try..
 
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post Mar 25 2008, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 25 2008, 02:51 PM) *
congrats!! _smile.gif

hang in there.. _smile.gif ..

when you hubby come home.. let him take care the kid n u meet up with you friend n just hang out. shopping, barnes&noble, go to some track n just take a couple mile stroll.. then only the weekend.. tell you hubby to take you guys out to dinner. while you doin all that.. try n meet new ppl..


thanks...you know for some reason i always have this feeling when ever i meet someone. either we won't have anything in common or i have a bad feeling about them or something to that affect.

i met this girl online back in june and i thought we had a lot in common because she had a bf that was in afganistan but things got crazy for me in aug so her and i became really close. well she took advantage of my kindness and was never really considerate of me and everything i was doing for her. long story short, i cut that chick off and told her to grow up because i don't need anymore drama in my life then the stuff you've been giving me since we've met. it was so worth it.

ever since that incident, i've been very cautious of people. but, one friend that do have now i'm very cautious about too because it always seem that when i need her, she's just unavailable. like one day i told her that i desperately needed a break from my daughter and asked if she could watch her the next day. so she texts me saying her daughter has a sore throat and can't watch mine. well, it seems weird how convient that happened but i didn't want to over react like i always do. then, my b-day on sat came and wanted to see if she wanted to go out but she was sick with the flu. maybe she was and maybe i just have serious bad luck or something but it sucks either way. i can't win for losing.
 
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QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 03:59 PM) *
thanks...you know for some reason i always have this feeling when ever i meet someone. either we won't have anything in common or i have a bad feeling about them or something to that affect.

i met this girl online back in june and i thought we had a lot in common because she had a bf that was in afganistan but things got crazy for me in aug so her and i became really close. well she took advantage of my kindness and was never really considerate of me and everything i was doing for her. long story short, i cut that chick off and told her to grow up because i don't need anymore drama in my life then the stuff you've been giving me since we've met. it was so worth it.

ever since that incident, i've been very cautious of people. but, one friend that do have now i'm very cautious about too because it always seem that when i need her, she's just unavailable. like one day i told her that i desperately needed a break from my daughter and asked if she could watch her the next day. so she texts me saying her daughter has a sore throat and can't watch mine. well, it seems weird how convient that happened but i didn't want to over react like i always do. then, my b-day on sat came and wanted to see if she wanted to go out but she was sick with the flu. maybe she was and maybe i just have serious bad luck or something but it sucks either way. i can't win for losing.

it calll defense mechanism... you dont want you 2 let u gaurd down n get hurt.. just give everybody a chance n see what they like.. if you see something u dont like.. NEXT THEM!!!

its good that you cut her offf beforee thing get worstt..thumbsup.gif

cant u just put you Bday on diff day..? i dont see how u cant..

everyday.. just take you baby n go out for walk.. you can stay inside the house 24/7 but the baby cant.. so take the baby out everyday for 30 minute or more..
 

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Melie   depression   Mar 10 2008, 09:04 PM
superficial   What are you depressed about? Usually when I'm...   Mar 10 2008, 09:16 PM
Melie   thanks for the links. i appreciate it. i'm jus...   Mar 10 2008, 10:28 PM
karmakiller   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 10 2008, 10:28 PM) than...   Mar 11 2008, 10:11 PM
S-Majere   Never suffered from depression. In the words of Bi...   Mar 11 2008, 05:53 AM
superstitious   I went through a phase when I though I was depress...   Mar 11 2008, 09:08 PM
RockItStudios   it varies with my physical and social health, as i...   Mar 12 2008, 05:52 PM
Melie   QUOTE(RockItStudios @ Mar 12 2008, 05:52 ...   Mar 12 2008, 09:15 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 10 2008, 10:04 PM) late...   Mar 12 2008, 09:40 PM
Heathasm   ive tried meditation for my depression and it work...   Mar 12 2008, 09:51 PM
RockItStudios   QUOTE(Heathasm @ Mar 12 2008, 09:51 PM) i...   Mar 13 2008, 07:02 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Heathasm @ Mar 12 2008, 10:51 PM) i...   Mar 13 2008, 07:04 PM
ohBrian   I play sports to relieve stress away   Mar 12 2008, 10:56 PM
Melie   my problem with meditating is that i can't get...   Mar 13 2008, 08:26 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 13 2008, 09:26 PM) my p...   Mar 25 2008, 11:02 AM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 13 2008, 09:26 PM) my p...   Mar 25 2008, 11:55 AM
CODiENE   Personally, I cut, and other stuff.   Mar 25 2008, 12:19 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 01:19 PM) Pe...   Mar 25 2008, 12:24 PM
CODiENE   ^ say what? It feels good, suprisingly. thats a...   Mar 25 2008, 12:34 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 01:34 PM) ^ ...   Mar 25 2008, 12:39 PM
CODiENE   Irony? This isn't ironic. Its just I have a h...   Mar 25 2008, 12:43 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 01:43 PM) Ir...   Mar 25 2008, 01:17 PM
CODiENE   It doesn't hurt if you cut across fast enough....   Mar 25 2008, 01:55 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 02:55 PM) It...   Mar 25 2008, 02:16 PM
nguoicasison   ^ u sooo douchee.. HAHAHAHAH!!! u eva...   Mar 25 2008, 02:01 PM
CODiENE   ^Why would i want to do that?   Mar 25 2008, 02:09 PM
nguoicasison   no mo depresss man.. tryy cut u leftt nut sumtime....   Mar 25 2008, 02:11 PM
Melie   if you are cutting yourself, my suggestion is to m...   Mar 25 2008, 02:18 PM
CODiENE   I've done that. It worked for a year and then ...   Mar 25 2008, 02:26 PM
Melie   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 02:26 PM) I...   Mar 25 2008, 02:30 PM
CODiENE   I never said I gave up. I have one of those rubber...   Mar 25 2008, 02:31 PM
Melie   QUOTE(CODiENE @ Mar 25 2008, 02:31 PM) I ...   Mar 25 2008, 02:34 PM
nguoicasison   melie.. dis bout u not sum lil kidd who go EMO... ...   Mar 25 2008, 02:41 PM
Melie   well for right now, i'm still taking my meds a...   Mar 25 2008, 02:44 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 03:44 PM) well...   Mar 25 2008, 02:51 PM
Melie   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 25 2008, 02:51 P...   Mar 25 2008, 02:59 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 03:59 PM) than...   Mar 25 2008, 03:08 PM
Melie   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 25 2008, 03:08 P...   Mar 25 2008, 03:14 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 25 2008, 04:14 PM) lol....   Mar 25 2008, 03:31 PM
Be-Faithful   so many tears if you are realy depressed, why ex...   Mar 25 2008, 02:52 PM
Melie   your right! today i took her to the store and ...   Mar 25 2008, 11:51 PM
nguoicasison   justt shakee shakee ittt of...   Mar 26 2008, 08:11 AM
Kevinkatalyst   I dont think I have depression but more like troub...   Mar 25 2008, 11:58 PM
Reconditee   I also have depression. I've been battling it ...   Apr 3 2008, 06:15 PM
mmhmichelle   I wouldn't say I'm really depressed,but I ...   Apr 16 2008, 07:17 PM
Melie   even though we are different in age, our depressio...   Apr 16 2008, 08:27 PM
Bishinobi   Well. You get used to it. Meds help.   Apr 16 2008, 09:28 PM
chocokissez   I dont know if i am actualy "depressed",...   Apr 16 2008, 09:29 PM


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