I need help once again... Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

Ok, as you guys remember I posted a topic a couple weeks back about me smoking one cig and how I told my gf that I don't smoke anymore n stuff. Well, after that incident she said that she doesn't trust me the same way she used to. She claims that she needs to create a barrier in which she can shelter herself from pain because she doesn't want me to hurt her again..however I have been trying so hard to prove to her that I do not smoke and that im telling the truth about things.

I really want her to trust me again..I have been trying so hard and I know she has noticed the changes that I have made, but it's still not enough for her..


Should I just give it some time and sooner or later she will trust me the same way? What do I do?

[Melie]

ummm...if she's flipping about you just smoking a cigarette then i wonder how she would react if you did something far worse? hmmm...

to me, it sounds like there is something going on other than the smoke. it could be an excuse for her so that she can either be mad at you or distance herself from you. you might wanna talk to her about it but i doubt she will open up since she's a girl and all. we're good at bottling up emotions and then letting it build up until you "lie to me about smoking".