I need help once again... Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

Ok, as you guys remember I posted a topic a couple weeks back about me smoking one cig and how I told my gf that I don't smoke anymore n stuff. Well, after that incident she said that she doesn't trust me the same way she used to. She claims that she needs to create a barrier in which she can shelter herself from pain because she doesn't want me to hurt her again..however I have been trying so hard to prove to her that I do not smoke and that im telling the truth about things.

I really want her to trust me again..I have been trying so hard and I know she has noticed the changes that I have made, but it's still not enough for her..


Should I just give it some time and sooner or later she will trust me the same way? What do I do?

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Ok, as you guys remember I posted a topic a couple weeks back about me smoking one cig and how I told my gf that I don't smoke anymore n stuff. Well, after that incident she said that she doesn't trust me the same way she used to. She claims that she needs to create a barrier in which she can shelter herself from pain because she doesn't want me to hurt her again..however I have been trying so hard to prove to her that I do not smoke and that im telling the truth about things.

I really want her to trust me again..I have been trying so hard and I know she has noticed the changes that I have made, but it's still not enough for her..
Should I just give it some time and sooner or later she will trust me the same way? What do I do?

Move along... dump her. That'll destroy her "shield". lol
If someone doesn't trust you, then f**k em' step away from them and find someone who actually cares to trust you. f**k her immature selfish shield.

Now don't get me wrong, if you're a liar and you keep gettin caught in lies... then you're the moron and she should dump your ass.