I need help once again... Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

Ok, as you guys remember I posted a topic a couple weeks back about me smoking one cig and how I told my gf that I don't smoke anymore n stuff. Well, after that incident she said that she doesn't trust me the same way she used to. She claims that she needs to create a barrier in which she can shelter herself from pain because she doesn't want me to hurt her again..however I have been trying so hard to prove to her that I do not smoke and that im telling the truth about things.

I really want her to trust me again..I have been trying so hard and I know she has noticed the changes that I have made, but it's still not enough for her..


Should I just give it some time and sooner or later she will trust me the same way? What do I do?

[tokyo-rose]

You just have to wait for more time -- a lot more time -- to pass until she can trust you at almost the same level that she used to. I don't think it will ever be the same.