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Mar 15 2008, 10:25 PM
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been the cheater???
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Mar 22 2008, 08:53 PM
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I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before.
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Mar 23 2008, 07:18 PM
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![]() loved. knocked at my door. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 |
I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before. it was the same for me..like the guilt was there but it never really hit me. & then i was just like i have to tell him. & then the guilt really set in the last time it happened. yes, it happened more than once people. & my heart felt like it was about to fall out of my chest & i called and was like "baby...." and he was broken. like i still don't forgive myself at times. i think it hurt me a little more than it hurt him & it's been awhile but we still talk and stuff. it's almost like we never broke up but u can't be with someone if u don't trust them. |
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melodyus have u ever.. Mar 15 2008, 10:25 PM
karmakiller Ouch. No. Never been cheated on, either. Mar 15 2008, 10:45 PM
yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(karmakiller @ Mar 15 2008, 08:45 PM... Mar 23 2008, 05:21 PM
Melie but i've learned my lesson...what goes around,... Mar 15 2008, 11:03 PM
andrew-duhh nopee.
been cheated on though. Mar 16 2008, 12:23 AM
Packratofthemind Nope.Never Mar 16 2008, 12:37 AM
Heathasm no...ive been severely tempted which has me guilt-... Mar 16 2008, 01:31 AM
Joss-eh-lime no, ive never been in that situation Mar 16 2008, 01:55 AM
melodyus if u have...
did u feel really guilty or slightly ... Mar 16 2008, 05:14 PM
SilentLaugh ill get back to you when ive been in a relationshi... Mar 16 2008, 05:18 PM
chocokissez nooo.
meanies
j/k Mar 16 2008, 05:19 PM
melodyus it's definitely one of the hardest things i... Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM
sububabiix33 QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 16 2008, 05:25 PM) i... Mar 20 2008, 11:16 AM
melodyus QUOTE(sububabiix33 @ Mar 20 2008, 12:16 P... Mar 21 2008, 02:39 PM
danceeNAKED yesterday. i found out. mmhmm. thanks. Mar 22 2008, 12:00 PM
Synesthesia I've never cheated on my ex or boyfriend. Mar 16 2008, 06:18 PM
DeviantShadows It isn't in me to cheat. It's the worst po... Mar 16 2008, 11:06 PM
Tamacracker No... I don't believe in promiscuity. Before I... Mar 18 2008, 04:04 PM
Kay- nope but a guy has cheated on a gf with me =/ Mar 18 2008, 10:55 PM
guessewho my girlfriend is the cheater.. Mar 20 2008, 01:22 PM
melodyus i'm sorry to hear that. Mar 22 2008, 08:47 PM
nguoicasison QUOTE(melodyus @ Mar 15 2008, 11:25 PM) b... Mar 22 2008, 08:56 PM
Freeborn-Kiwi i've never been in a relationship.
it just se... Mar 22 2008, 09:03 PM
MeanBastard No Mar 23 2008, 08:52 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix Wow so why do you think it happened? Why more than... Mar 24 2008, 05:31 PM
fathomlessdame lot of my friends say its not considered cheating ... Mar 24 2008, 08:09 PM
Tamacracker QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Mar 24 2008, 09:09... Mar 25 2008, 10:43 AM
Danielle-Son No I haven't cheated, or been cheated on...
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