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have u ever.. |
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![]() loved. knocked at my door. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 ![]() |
been the cheater???
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I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before.
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![]() loved. knocked at my door. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,399 ![]() |
I did in my past relationship and it was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with because he was basically a saint and all he did was love me. It was early on in the relationship and I never said anything. I was going to break up with him because my guilt was too grand but upon the advice of my friend kept working at it. After cheating (kissing another guy) and experiencing that great fear of losing him I realized that I loved him. After that we lasted 7 more happy months. Now in my current relationship karma came and bit me in the ass and my boyfriend cheated on me. I forgave him because I'm no one to judge obviously and now I can honestly say that I've never been happier with giving a second chance. He reinvented himself and I trust him more than I did before. it was the same for me..like the guilt was there but it never really hit me. & then i was just like i have to tell him. & then the guilt really set in the last time it happened. yes, it happened more than once people. & my heart felt like it was about to fall out of my chest & i called and was like "baby...." and he was broken. like i still don't forgive myself at times. i think it hurt me a little more than it hurt him & it's been awhile but we still talk and stuff. it's almost like we never broke up but u can't be with someone if u don't trust them. |
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