heartbreak. Options

[weed]

i found my boyfriends secret myspace, i saw him flirting with other girls and saying this like " i cant wait to see you" and "i hope you dnt mind im flirting"..

my heart is torn. i cant explain this feeling. It just hurts.

please make this stop.

[vietbabiiix3]

Listen, you need to just stop the tears and the frustration because that won't do you any good. I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about what you encountered. But don't make such a big front about it. Listen to what he has to say. Because it shows him that you trust him. So basically, don't go up to him / call him and freak out. I hope you understand what you mean. Just be calm and be like "Hey, I found your myspace." And if he doesn't react, just tell him straightforward. But don't get offensive. Because he will just think you're fussy and that you don't trust him. Just slowly say all your feelings. Tell him "Hey, you know I trust you and everything. I'm not accusing you with anything, but it makes me uncomfortable what you say to other girls." And if after you say this he still puts up a wall against you, then you have a right to be angry. But what I'm trying to say is maybe it's just a misunderstanding. Maybe he just casually said those things. That's how guys are. But don't get all up in his face.

But seriously, after three years, he shouldn't be doing that to you. And I'd hate to see you "dump his ass" just because of this. So think wisely before making any decisions. But don't let him be controlling. Show him what youuu gottt girl =]

Good luck