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post Mar 21 2008, 08:06 PM
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i found my boyfriends secret myspace, i saw him flirting with other girls and saying this like " i cant wait to see you" and "i hope you dnt mind im flirting"..

my heart is torn. i cant explain this feeling. It just hurts.

please make this stop.

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post Mar 21 2008, 09:54 PM
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of course i have a f**king clue. and of course i've been heartbroken before. but over actual things that have way more meaning to online myspace shit. i've been in 4 relationships, and i can tell you. one of my gf was wayy to emotional about the simplest things and overreact to small things I did, like if I have a conversation with another girl in public, or if I hung out with another female friend. she wouldn't even let me have girls on my aim buddy list.

so you say you been with him for 3 years now? are you in love with him? would you consider the relationship to be possessive love?

i know this is probably the first thing he ever did that you might feel insecure about, so I understand why you might feel "heartbroken" I think you are more just upset and have a sense of jealousy feelings in there. I'm sorry to hear about what you have to deal with, but the fact of the matter is, what he did isn't as nearly as bad as you think.
 
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post Mar 21 2008, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 10:54 PM) *
of course i have a f**king clue. and of course i've been heartbroken before. but over actual things that have way more meaning to online myspace shit. i've been in 4 relationships, and i can tell you. one of my gf was wayy to emotional about the simplest things and overreact to small things I did, like if I have a conversation with another girl in public, or if I hung out with another female friend. she wouldn't even let me have girls on my aim buddy list.

so you say you been with him for 3 years now? are you in love with him? would you consider the relationship to be possessive love?

i know this is probably the first thing he ever did that you might feel insecure about, so I understand why you might feel "heartbroken" I think you are more just upset and have a sense of jealousy feelings in there. I'm sorry to hear about what you have to deal with, but the fact of the matter is, what he did isn't as nearly as bad as you think.


wow okay.
I dont feel like going into details as to what those messages said but you'd figure if you've been with someone that long and everyday they tell you they love you then you find out your significant other spits game to other girls and talks to other females in a more than friendly disrespectful way. It kills me tung it kills me because it completely caught me off guard and i never expected this from him.

i TRUSTED him...

Do you really think im over reacting? Do you really think i dont have the right to be upset? sad.gif
 

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danceeNAKED   heartbreak.   Mar 21 2008, 08:06 PM
tungmyBANANA   it's just myspace. and online flirting. is he ...   Mar 21 2008, 08:07 PM
danceeNAKED   tung its not funny. im f**king crying. and i feel ...   Mar 21 2008, 08:08 PM
ChaseTheDragon   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 21 2008, 08:08 PM...   Mar 28 2008, 10:50 PM
tungmyBANANA   i'm just saying. if he's just online flirt...   Mar 21 2008, 08:10 PM
danceeNAKED   three years. its been three years, how is he going...   Mar 21 2008, 08:11 PM
tungmyBANANA   so did you guys break up?   Mar 21 2008, 08:18 PM
RissyMel   I would either, 1. dump his sorry but. or 2. get r...   Mar 21 2008, 08:55 PM
tungmyBANANA   QUOTE(RissyMel @ Mar 21 2008, 06:55 PM) I...   Mar 21 2008, 08:57 PM
RissyMel   Yes, I am right now actually. For a little over a ...   Mar 21 2008, 09:00 PM
danceeNAKED   we havent broken up. He wants to stay together but...   Mar 21 2008, 09:26 PM
Heathasm   wow im so sorry :[ what a jerk...but i cant say th...   Mar 21 2008, 09:29 PM
danceeNAKED   Im actually glad i know, because not only will thi...   Mar 21 2008, 09:30 PM
CapCaDancer   I'm really sorry. =/ What did he have to say a...   Mar 21 2008, 09:33 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(CapCaDancer @ Mar 21 2008, 10:33 PM...   Mar 21 2008, 09:36 PM
tungmyBANANA   wow, it's not like he kissed another girl, or ...   Mar 21 2008, 09:38 PM
CapCaDancer   Personally, I think you are not being emo. You hav...   Mar 21 2008, 09:41 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTELong ago, men went to sea, and women waited f...   Mar 21 2008, 09:46 PM
CapCaDancer   Aw, I'm glad you like that quote. I'm.......   Mar 21 2008, 09:53 PM
tungmyBANANA   of course i have a f**king clue. and of course i...   Mar 21 2008, 09:54 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 10:54 P...   Mar 21 2008, 10:03 PM
vietbabiiix3   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 10:54 P...   Mar 22 2008, 08:53 AM
CapCaDancer   It's not pointless myspace crap. It doesn...   Mar 21 2008, 10:00 PM
tungmyBANANA   of course I believe you have the right to be upset...   Mar 21 2008, 10:07 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 11:07 P...   Mar 21 2008, 10:13 PM
nguoicasison   onlioneee flirtt n crush.. girl get mad when ther...   Mar 21 2008, 11:07 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 22 2008, 12:07 A...   Mar 22 2008, 10:50 AM
tungmyBANANA   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 22 2008, 08:50 AM...   Mar 22 2008, 03:24 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 22 2008, 11:50 AM...   Mar 22 2008, 08:43 PM
vietbabiiix3   Listen, you need to just stop the tears and the fr...   Mar 22 2008, 03:05 PM
Edwinbarkhordarian   Just talk to him..online flirting is nothing too s...   Mar 22 2008, 03:22 PM
JokeInsideJoke   awww im sorry QUOTE(RissyMel @ Mar 21 2008,...   Mar 22 2008, 03:57 PM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 22 2008, 04...   Mar 22 2008, 07:28 PM
pkbabe   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 21 2008, 06:06 PM...   Mar 22 2008, 07:51 PM
Synesthesia   nquack, stop it. Suzie, you have a right to be up...   Mar 22 2008, 08:46 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Mar 22 2008, 09:46 PM...   Mar 22 2008, 08:58 PM
TearsOfAPhoenix   It seems to me that the real problem goes back to ...   Mar 22 2008, 08:47 PM
MeanBastard   So what did you do?   Mar 23 2008, 08:57 PM
aaayotiffany   i actually have a friend that went through this. t...   Mar 27 2008, 11:30 PM
JuggaloSKfan   Were the comments or w/e it was up to date? Well i...   Mar 27 2008, 11:56 PM
mellysmelly   i kinda had this same situation with my bf i went ...   Mar 28 2008, 10:42 PM
RissyMel   QUOTE(mellysmelly @ Mar 28 2008, 11:42 PM...   Mar 29 2008, 10:56 AM
danceeNAKED   QUOTE(RissyMel @ Mar 29 2008, 11:56 AM) t...   Mar 29 2008, 11:58 AM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 29 2008, 11:58 AM...   Mar 29 2008, 12:10 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Mar 21 2008, 09:06 PM...   Mar 28 2008, 11:23 PM
Kayc05   You know, the same thing happened with my boyfrien...   Mar 29 2008, 01:07 AM
Melie   you know i was actually the one in my relationship...   Mar 29 2008, 12:06 PM


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