your parent's found out?!, uhoh.. Options

[Nugget]

hey createblog. (:

long time, no see! most of you probably don't even know, or remember me. anyway, i have a question.. more advice needed, actually.

well, i have a boyfriend. and i was walking home with him this evening. i saw my dad's car pass around the corner, so i threw down his hand and obnoxiously looked in the car. i'm pretty sure he looked back at me, his heading moving towards my direction. and well, i was so scared. i still am. i told my brother, who's 23 by the way, that i have a boyfriend and i think dad saw me. at first, i didn't think he'd make a big deal out of it because he's one of those guys that are old, but have a mind of like, a 15 year old. so, i told him & he started to make all these gay remarks. so, i'm like "i'm serious! don't tell ANYONE." my mom comes in while i'm playing counter-strike and he tells her. i'm like, wow you f**king dick! so, my mom says she's gonna tell my oldest sister, who's like, 25, and she's basically my second mom. i'm scared of her the most. well, that happens, so now i'm all worried about my discipline. -________-

does the fact that i'm asian have anything to do with it? haha..

so yeah, basically, i just need some advice to get through this. lol. much appreciated. (:

[Melie]

don't be too worried. if your family is like this all the time then expect it to be like this all the time. they do it because they love you and they care about you. but please, don't try to hide it from them because then you'll be doing things that you know they don't want you to do and before you know it? BAM!! your prego before the age of 17. keep them in the loop and be real about your feelings to them. keep your head up!