f**k No Sex Before Marriage Options

[Tung]

Honestly, the people who believe in not having sex before marriage is setting themselves for a huge risk. Why you ask? You're about to marry someone you've never had sex with, and after you're married, they are going to be your sex partner for the rest of your life.

People who say sex isn't a big deal and that important in a healthy relationship are kidding themselves. There are those who have sexual chemistry, and some who just have general personality chemistry. Also, of course you can have both. What I'm saying is that, why set yourself up for a risk and marry someone you haven't sexually experienced yet? You two could be have the best relationship and get married. However, what happens after you guys get married, and your partner totally sucks at sex? You're screwed, and stuck with that person for the rest of your life, until maybe you want a divorce. But why go through all that, and deal with the financial burden of one?

Also, it's also a good thing, to live with someone you're about to marry. Again, you're going to be with your spouse for quite some time under the same roof after you're married. I've seen too many times couples who never lived with one another, get married, and move in together for the first time. They have so much problems with living with one another.

So I say, f**k the no sex before marriage rule. Have all the sex you can get in the relationship before getting married, and know what you are getting yourself into.


edit: oops posted in wrong forums. mod move to relationship plox.

[stephinika]

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Good, now seriously lets stay on topic, this is getting ridiculous.



Sooo, back to topic -- I think its funny how America is so 'sex-crazed' apparently but at the same time so sexually repressed compared to some places in Europe and whatnot hm?

but like I said earlier, to each his own as long as you don't shove it down ones throat. Seriously.

[illriginal]

but like I said earlier, to each his own as long as you don't shove it down ones throat. Seriously.

Can you please quote the part where I started to shove my opinion down anyone's throat in this thread? NO WHERE did I mention this is how we as humans HAVE to live. I simply implied what the point of sex was in the first place. Nothin more nothing less... I didn't judge anyone for different way of life nor did I tell them that I'm better than them because of their choices with sex.


So quote me. Obviously sulfur failed at quoting me on my so called "judging", poor kid doesn't even know what judging is.

[fameONE]

Can you please quote the part where I started to shove my opinion down anyone's throat in this thread? NO WHERE did I mention this is how we as humans HAVE to live. I simply implied what the point of sex was in the first place. Nothin more nothing less... I didn't judge anyone for different way of life nor did I tell them that I'm better than them because of their choices with sex.
So quote me. Obviously sulfur failed at quoting me on my so called "judging", poor kid doesn't even know what judging is.

I'm quoting you now.

Instead of singling someone out because you don't take the time to read the thread, why don't you take a step back and realize how narcissistic you are on the forum. Just because you're in a thread, and there's a dispute, doesn't mean it's directed toward you. Get the f**k outta here with that bullshit.

[illriginal]

I'm quoting you now.

Instead of singling someone out because you don't take the time to read the thread, why don't you take a step back and realize how narcissistic you are on the forum. Just because you're in a thread, and there's a dispute, doesn't mean it's directed toward you. Get the f**k outta here with that bullshit.

And with all the assumptions after my first post in this thread by Just Dream, superstitious, and tungmyBANANA, you're gonna tell me that someone's not gonna agree with them (most likey dislike me) and add with no names an agreement with the others by mentioning, "shoving opinions down others throats?... I can tell what they're implying... you can take a look at the rest of the thread and you'll see no one's shoving anything down anyone's throat. Until the moronic assumptions began.

Right...