f**k No Sex Before Marriage Options

[Tung]

Honestly, the people who believe in not having sex before marriage is setting themselves for a huge risk. Why you ask? You're about to marry someone you've never had sex with, and after you're married, they are going to be your sex partner for the rest of your life.

People who say sex isn't a big deal and that important in a healthy relationship are kidding themselves. There are those who have sexual chemistry, and some who just have general personality chemistry. Also, of course you can have both. What I'm saying is that, why set yourself up for a risk and marry someone you haven't sexually experienced yet? You two could be have the best relationship and get married. However, what happens after you guys get married, and your partner totally sucks at sex? You're screwed, and stuck with that person for the rest of your life, until maybe you want a divorce. But why go through all that, and deal with the financial burden of one?

Also, it's also a good thing, to live with someone you're about to marry. Again, you're going to be with your spouse for quite some time under the same roof after you're married. I've seen too many times couples who never lived with one another, get married, and move in together for the first time. They have so much problems with living with one another.

So I say, f**k the no sex before marriage rule. Have all the sex you can get in the relationship before getting married, and know what you are getting yourself into.


edit: oops posted in wrong forums. mod move to relationship plox.

[NoSex]

Of course, that post came from the Girl's Locker. Those poor stigmatized women.

Beyond raising a brow, I'm "what the f**king?!" anyone that doesn't bang their partner before marriage. That's just a damned idiotic strategy. Sex is fun and it doesn't equal love. Further, naturally, mankind is not monogamous (just like the majority of all other living mammals). Lastly, if you esteem marriage so much, you shouldn't take it so lightly. I don't believe in nor ever want to get married, but, if I was going to I would get everything straight. If I was going to make such a strong legal and philosophical commitment, I would ensure that I knew every inch of my partner, both metaphorically and literally. Sexual identity is a huge deal - to marry someone without being hip to such things is f**king stupid, no matter how you cut the cake.

More so and more so it becomes obvious that we're in a society full of sexual repression (especially in the case of women).