conversations are bothering me ahh Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

I don't know how to say this, however the past couple of days me and my girlfriend have been talking and everytime we talk it's as if she brings something bad up about myself, whether it's me being a jerk sometimes towards other people and etc etc. It has been really bothering me, im always so nice to her and yet I feel she treats me poorly.


What do I do?

[Just_Dream]

Well maybe it depends on what she's saying. Is it targeted towards how you treat other people, your habits, etc.? If it is, then it's clearly a sign that she wants you to change. Just make sure you're able to change what's within your capacity, or what you're willing to change. Offer a compromise - criticize something about her to her face so she gets a reality check so she should change some of her bad habits as well.


But if she's constantly bagging on you for no reason and you're taking it like a wuss (no offense), you definitely should talk to her about it. I agree with Heather (Heathasm). Don't get whipped! lol Good luck!