no time v. distance, advice? Options

[mytangerine]

it's been a while since i've felt the need to post a topic in this forum; probably because things haven't really been that bad overall, but..

I am "talking" to this guy, i can't even really define it as talking since in the time we've been talking, we've only hung out one time. But, I say we're talking because we have phone conversations everyday with the whole point being getting to know each other well enough to have a decent relationship eventually. ya dig? Anyways, so his name is andrew & he works a lot. He has absolutely no time for me, let alone anyone else really. From school, he goes directly to work & everytime we talk on the phone it's on his way home from work, since that's the only time he can. I really like him & he is the one guy I could see myself having a really long relationship with. It just frustrates me that we can't spend anytime together; if we could things would be great.

Another thing is, I just recently got in contact with a really old guy friend of mine from elementary school. We had gone to school together to fourth grade, fifth grade, I switched schools & we faded quickly. We have been texting so much & having super conversations on aim, & recently started talking on the phone a lot too. The thing is, this guy is like my twin. I swear, we are so much alike, it is crazy. We are also able to talk about anything & be completely open with each other. It's really amazing & I'm actually completely paranoid I'm going to end up falling for him instead of Andrew, mostly because I talk to this guy, Zach so much more & I can tell him anything, whereas with Andrew I have to hold a lot of things back because I don't want him to not like me. I know it's silly, I should just be myself, but I'm just shy with Andrew, yet super outgoing with Zachary, I don't understand. Problem with Zachary is, he lives at least an hour away, while Andrew lives in the same suburb.

Problem simplified-
I'm starting to think it would be better just to be friends with Andrew until he gets less busy but I really don't want to loss him as a potential boyfriend. And talking to Zachary so much is completely confusing me & throwing me off, since I begin wondering more if Zachary will call me than I do Andrew.

what to do, what to do?

[fameONE]

I think you don't need our advice and you just needed to lay it all on the table, then make a decision.

[Keelo]

I think you don't need our advice and you just needed to lay it all on the table, then make a decision.