Saying "I Love You"? |
 Mar 2 2008, 01:54 AM
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I know there's no real, exact answer to the question but it makes me wonder. How early/far into a relationship do you say "I love you" to the person you're with?
You always hear of people saying "Oh, it's only been a week, they're not in love." But who are they to judge what others feel? |
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Mar 2 2008, 02:25 AM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
To me, you can't truly love someone unless you've been through hardships that shaped out your relationship and made you stronger. Before you guys date, it most likely hasn't gotten to the point you'd mean the words, but you most likely have a strong like for them. I'd say about 2-5 months in a relationship where you'd know that if your partner said that they loved you, they would mean it. If you're in a relationship with someone for one week, how do you know for sure that they mean it? They haven't been together long enough to have such strong feelings for one another.
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Mar 9 2008, 11:36 PM
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 R U A Q T ? [; Group: Official Member Posts: 7,276 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,631 |
QUOTE(superficial @ Mar 2 2008, 12:25 AM)  To me, you can't truly love someone unless you've been through hardships that shaped out your relationship and made you stronger. Before you guys date, it most likely hasn't gotten to the point you'd mean the words, but you most likely have a strong like for them. I'd say about 2-5 months in a relationship where you'd know that if your partner said that they loved you, they would mean it. If you're in a relationship with someone for one week, how do you know for sure that they mean it? They haven't been together long enough to have such strong feelings for one another. i agree. i hate seeing people 'dating' at school and they say i love you like..after a couple hours of dating -__- |
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babyfacexo Saying "I Love You"? Mar 2 2008, 01:54 AM
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