best friends ex, should I? |
 Mar 9 2008, 02:09 PM
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My best friend is in a new relationship and I asked her if it would be okay if I pursued anything with her exboyfriend.
She said it was fine. They only dated for a month a year ago and now they're really great friends, so I feel like it's okay. But there's the rule of "never date a friends ex" so I'm scared. Especially 'cause when she gets in a bad mood she'll laugh and joke about getting back with him (even though she hated dating him, she was too mellow for his craziness). Should I pursue anything? I don't want to make her feel bad, but I really do like him. |
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Mar 9 2008, 07:57 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
I think it really depends on what type of person your bffl is and how serious the relationship was.
There was ths group of friends back in highschool who would.. like date eachother and pass each other around like soda drinks. They were completely cool with it too! So even if its the ultimate rule of never to date your bestfriend's ex, theres always ways to break it through loopholes. |
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ALittleUnknown best friends ex Mar 9 2008, 02:09 PM
superficial No! You never go out with your best friend... Mar 9 2008, 02:16 PM
danceeNAKED QUOTE(superficial @ Mar 9 2008, 03:16 PM)... Mar 9 2008, 04:55 PM Synesthesia Don't. It's not worth it, especially since... Mar 9 2008, 03:00 PM tungmyBANANA yes you should. he has a dick right? if you want s... Mar 9 2008, 03:03 PM babecakes the recycle program huh, yuck. Mar 9 2008, 03:56 PM agiri depends how much you like him.
if its interest, i... Mar 9 2008, 04:49 PM Steven friends w/ benefits. suck his cock. Mar 9 2008, 05:23 PM carolannexbh QUOTE(Steven @ Mar 9 2008, 05:23 PM) frie... Mar 9 2008, 07:16 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(carolannexbh @ Mar 9 2008, 06:16 PM... Mar 9 2008, 07:18 PM BrandonSaunders Depends.
How serious was their relationship? Mar 9 2008, 07:15 PM melodyus it's a rule for gurls. never. it always seems ... Mar 9 2008, 08:05 PM heartquasm If she only dated him for a month a year ago, then... Mar 9 2008, 08:18 PM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(heartquasm @ Mar 9 2008, 07:18 PM) ... Mar 9 2008, 09:18 PM heartquasm QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Mar 9 2008, 10:18... Mar 13 2008, 07:00 PM rejakalu QUOTE(heartquasm @ Mar 13 2008, 06:00 PM)... Mar 23 2008, 06:45 PM melodyus i dated a guy for a month & then one of my fri... Mar 9 2008, 08:25 PM th5418 Go for it. While you're at it, go out with you... Mar 10 2008, 02:32 AM Tamacracker i see a thread being made by the thread author in ... Mar 13 2008, 07:02 PM S-Majere Yikes, I really would leave this one alone. Mar 14 2008, 06:32 AM misoshiru everyone always says it's "fine". i... Mar 14 2008, 10:37 AM nguoicasison QUOTE(ALittleUnknown @ Mar 9 2008, 03:09 ... Mar 19 2008, 07:41 AM fosheezy ahh, don't pursue anything.
it may have been a... Mar 20 2008, 06:29 AM chrislagace don't date the ex (even though you're prob... Mar 20 2008, 10:51 AM guessewho disaster waiting to happen Mar 20 2008, 03:14 PM RissyMel She says she wont care.
go for it, I did.
ha
If it... Mar 21 2008, 09:22 PM tungmyBANANA QUOTE(RissyMel @ Mar 21 2008, 07:22 PM) S... Mar 21 2008, 09:25 PM RissyMel QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Mar 21 2008, 10:25 P... Mar 21 2008, 09:52 PM yrrnotelekktric I wouldn`t. I would just find it too awkward. Mar 23 2008, 05:22 PM Heathasm i went out with my friend's ex and now we are ... Mar 23 2008, 05:25 PM |
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