I hate my dad., & I mean it. Options

[mauriciocruelty]

He comes to visit me & my mom every 2 weeks or so from lousiana, he camed last night with my brother because today my brother is turning 17.
the point is that I have a new hairstyle, & I understand that alot of people are not going to like it, & I thought my dad wouldn't really care as long as I was happy. but no he doesn't work like that its always about his happiness.he called me gay & said I look like a girl because I straightened my hair & spike it up from the back (picture on myspace) WTF was I suppose to say? I just told him that it was my hair & not his. now my brother is using my dad's comments against me! so I got mad & punched him, & all of a sudden IM the bad person.
I really hate my dad cause he just can't accept me the way I already AM.
so yeah I've come to deeps thoughts that sometimes I really do want him dead.
I'm a bad son, but he's a HORRIBLE dad.



mauricio cruelty.


someone take me with me you!

[dustbunny]

Again, who cares if it's his own father? He's the one that is insecure in the first place and you can't blame your insecurity on other people. If he's already that insecure then it will be pretty much the same whether a stranger says it OR his father does because either way someone is hurting his already non-existent ego. It's not even a matter of his father accepting him for the way he is either, it's that his dad doesn't like his damn haircut. Boo f**king hoo. It's not like his dad said something ACTUALLY hurtful like "You're the worst son ever, I wish you were never born, you are horrible at everything you do, and I hate everything about you including your gay, girly hair."

again, it's because he IS his own father. his father should be someone who can he RELY ON and ACCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS, out of all people. instead, his father really helps him on his insecurity by calling him a girl. yeah sure, his father isn't SUPPOSED to lie about shit and say he loves the way his son is if in fact he doesn't, but you have to at least realize this is hurtful to his son no matter what. this isn't even about ego, it's about the fact that a family member can say such hurtful things to you. and if you don't think being called a girl is hurtful, then LAWLS. he cares because it's his f**king father.