I hate my dad., & I mean it. Options

[mauriciocruelty]

He comes to visit me & my mom every 2 weeks or so from lousiana, he camed last night with my brother because today my brother is turning 17.
the point is that I have a new hairstyle, & I understand that alot of people are not going to like it, & I thought my dad wouldn't really care as long as I was happy. but no he doesn't work like that its always about his happiness.he called me gay & said I look like a girl because I straightened my hair & spike it up from the back (picture on myspace) WTF was I suppose to say? I just told him that it was my hair & not his. now my brother is using my dad's comments against me! so I got mad & punched him, & all of a sudden IM the bad person.
I really hate my dad cause he just can't accept me the way I already AM.
so yeah I've come to deeps thoughts that sometimes I really do want him dead.
I'm a bad son, but he's a HORRIBLE dad.



mauricio cruelty.


someone take me with me you!

[xTINAA]

So what? Who cares that your OWN dad called you those things? Words are just words and someone is always going to think negatively of you, so you just have to deal with it. Like Heathasm said, maybe he said it in a joking sense and you just need to cool it. You already said you were thinking people wouldn't like your haircut, and your dad happens to be one of those people. Parents don't agree with everything their child does and they express that in different ways. Some with saying nothing, some with saying something, some even take it physical. Besides that, I'm sure if your dad is thinking it, others are probably thinking it too but not voicing their opinions to you.

If there are so many problems with your dad, why not grow up and talk to him or even a therapist or someone about it, instead of simply claiming that you hate him? That makes you seem like a child. Many kids have it way worse than their fathers calling them stupid.

Saying "I'm a bad son but he's a horrible dad" does not justify the fact that you want him dead, by the way. To me, it only reveals your immaturity.