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[*yrrnotelekktric*]

if you started to date someone, but found out along the way that he/she was raped, would you like him/her less, or just the same, or more?




/random.

[yaamakoh]

i think you start caring for that person even more if that situation ever did occur. you push her to be stronger, to stop thinking and sulking about it, and let her know that friends like yourself will always be there no matter what the situation is. whether it is rape, pregnancy, depression, or attempted suicide.
if you put all the petty immature feelings aside, i think it's easy to like or even fall with someone that got raped.
if she got previously raped, and your dating her and found out through her, that means she trusts you, and only you. if you get weird thoughts in your mind, like the thought of breaking up, thats your immature mind doing work, giving doubts.
if the girl considers you the healing process of her past, then let her use you. don't let rape get in the way of things, and grow with it. cause it takes a lot to date or even hang out with guys after a session of rape.