How did you feel, when you got into your first relationship? |
 Mar 2 2008, 02:35 PM
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Actually, its a story about mine. My crush, who likes me back, asked me to be his girlfriend on Leap Day. He's really shy and so he talks more online than in person. That's even how he asked me. In a sense, I'm happy but I also have mixed feelings about that... Is it really a relationship if he can't talk to me (due to embarrassment) in real life as much as online? I also have another problem. I'm really really close friends with this other guy S. He's my closest guy friend and he's the person I'm most comfortable with. We're irreplaceable to each other. But our feelings are not romantic. Yet I felt guilty when I told him that J and I got together, and he was confused and saddend at my controversial actions (I don't believe that high school relationships are the ones that go on forever... but I think it's a life experience. Yet, I just got with a guy.)... to the point of crying...
What's the meaning of all this and what should I do? |
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Mar 3 2008, 02:34 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Perhaps your friend S feels that he's losing you to your boyfriend. Being replaced does kind of suck--especially since you two are very close to the point of it being like it's something more. He may have feelings for you other than platonic ones.
As for your relationship--maybe it's not the right thing right now? Because I got together with my first boyfriend at a really bad time, and like you, I had mixed feelings--we lasted for one month. And no, don't talk about J with S--how would you like it if S talked about his gf with you? |
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mushiebeans How did you feel Mar 2 2008, 02:35 PM
superficial He could have possibly become sad because he thoug... Mar 2 2008, 02:39 PM S-Majere I'm still in my first relationship, two years ... Mar 2 2008, 02:58 PM shei I'm still in my first real relationship. We me... Mar 2 2008, 03:16 PM mushiebeans My friend S and I are really close, to the point w... Mar 2 2008, 04:17 PM Synesthesia Your relationship might not be at its best right n... Mar 2 2008, 04:45 PM Kay- My first real relationship was my first love Mar 3 2008, 12:50 AM
mishimoshi QUOTE(Kay- @ Mar 2 2008, 09:50 PM) M... Mar 3 2008, 04:35 AM yaamakoh your best friend is like the type of friend who yo... Mar 7 2008, 08:32 PM shalalalasusan My relationship actually started off online more a... Mar 7 2008, 11:12 PM mushiebeans my relationship with J is REALLY REALLY similar to... Mar 8 2008, 10:31 PM MeanBastard Pretty happy, fell in love. Then I found out she l... Mar 10 2008, 02:48 AM |
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