How did you feel, when you got into your first relationship? Options

[mushiebeans]

Actually, its a story about mine. My crush, who likes me back, asked me to be his girlfriend on Leap Day. He's really shy and so he talks more online than in person. That's even how he asked me. In a sense, I'm happy but I also have mixed feelings about that... Is it really a relationship if he can't talk to me (due to embarrassment) in real life as much as online? I also have another problem. I'm really really close friends with this other guy S. He's my closest guy friend and he's the person I'm most comfortable with. We're irreplaceable to each other. But our feelings are not romantic. Yet I felt guilty when I told him that J and I got together, and he was confused and saddend at my controversial actions (I don't believe that high school relationships are the ones that go on forever... but I think it's a life experience. Yet, I just got with a guy.)... to the point of crying...
What's the meaning of all this and what should I do?

[weed]

I'm still in my first real relationship. We met my sophomore year in high school. he is amazing we've now been together three years & six months. its amazing.

When i first saw him i said to myself, if you don't get with him you're going to regret it, oh Jesus i melted we kind of BROKE NECK looking at each other it was just one of those moments that literally take your breath away.

We started dating one week after meeting and weve been together since. Inseparable. I love it.

You should really give him time and maybe he'll come around but if he doesn't then i think you should talk to him about it and if things dont cahnge after you talk then maybe its just not the best relationship for you right now.