independance, lacking it. |
independance, lacking it. |
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i have this friend who just..lacks any opinion of her own or any independance. dont get me wrong though, i love her to death, but sometimes i wish she would speak up more. she really needs more confidence. but sometimes i just cant stand it when people let others step all over them. her boyfriend is such an effing bastard sometimes, the way he talks to her i just wanna punch him, but its really none of my business, and i really wish she would stand up for herself. i dunno... had to get that out..
what are your thoughts on these kind of situations and people? |
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my best friend used to be like this...she would just let her boyfriend take control of her and make her do stuff she did not want to...but she was raped when she was young and when she fought her raper...he just hurt her more. so she got afraid of standing for herself because she thought she was going to get hurt again. but, she went to a psychiatrist and it took a month or so and she got over it and dumped her boyfriend that pushed her around.
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