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independance, lacking it.
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post Jun 20 2004, 08:53 PM
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i have this friend who just..lacks any opinion of her own or any independance. dont get me wrong though, i love her to death, but sometimes i wish she would speak up more. she really needs more confidence. but sometimes i just cant stand it when people let others step all over them. her boyfriend is such an effing bastard sometimes, the way he talks to her i just wanna punch him, but its really none of my business, and i really wish she would stand up for herself. i dunno... had to get that out..

what are your thoughts on these kind of situations and people?
 
 
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post Jun 21 2004, 12:26 AM
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my best friend used to be like this...she would just let her boyfriend take control of her and make her do stuff she did not want to...but she was raped when she was young and when she fought her raper...he just hurt her more. so she got afraid of standing for herself because she thought she was going to get hurt again. but, she went to a psychiatrist and it took a month or so and she got over it and dumped her boyfriend that pushed her around.
 

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[2]Nekked   independance   Jun 20 2004, 08:53 PM
honorguard   I have a friend like that but not anymore. Because...   Jun 20 2004, 09:26 PM
hybrid   I need independance. But I'm afraid people mig...   Jun 21 2004, 12:07 AM
BurstinStarzz   my best friend used to be like this...she would ju...   Jun 21 2004, 12:26 AM
angel-roh   hmm yeah i had few of them... and i love them too....   Jun 21 2004, 05:59 AM
[X]poised   i used to be like that. the reason i was like that...   Jun 21 2004, 09:16 AM
bright eyes   wow. maybe you should just try to help her, tell h...   Jul 20 2004, 08:43 PM
silver rain   QUOTE(love[x)melissa,Jun 21 2004, 10:16 AM] i...   Jul 20 2004, 08:49 PM
sweetxsimplicity   I used to be like that...=X haha I think you shoul...   Jul 20 2004, 08:55 PM
NawtyLilAznChic   im lyk that...i have lyk no self confidence...i th...   Jul 20 2004, 09:02 PM
sheepy   yeah i have a friend like dat.. sometimes i wish s...   Jul 20 2004, 09:23 PM
defjam_gangsta   Greetings!! i have a few frens who fits y...   Jul 20 2004, 09:38 PM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   independence is a very important quality to have ....   Jul 20 2004, 11:11 PM
MyVermilionPlague   Yeah. Some of my friends lack independence, and I ...   Jul 20 2004, 11:19 PM
NatiMarie   Dang, that pisses me off as hell. I used to be tha...   Jul 20 2004, 11:50 PM
IIO__oII   *sigh* im like that. =/ i dont like speaking up f...   Jul 20 2004, 11:51 PM
strwbrryluv8   yeahhh... i used to have a friend like that too......   Jul 21 2004, 03:02 AM
someflipguy   That sounds so much like my brother... As much as...   Jul 21 2004, 11:01 AM
xsweetdreams12x   Yeah. I hate it when people let others use them as...   Jul 21 2004, 02:12 PM
conster   i would definitely stand up tho.. i kno its not my...   Jul 21 2004, 08:25 PM
sadolakced acid   take away thier stuff, using all sorts of excusses...   Jul 21 2004, 09:09 PM


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