Stepsons banned from dating until they are 17 Options

[dannyt]

My stepsons step sons are banned from dating until they are over the age of 17. If I were to permit them from dating I'm convinced they would become sexual active.

[illriginal]

My stepsons step sons are banned from dating until they are over the age of 17. If I were to permit them from dating I'm convinced they would become sexual active.

In a sense it is perfectly fine what you're doing. People should be responsible, if you caught your stepson having sexual relations at a young age, then it is perfectly and responsibly right to not tolerate dating at a young age until you feel their mentally mature.

I for one will not let my kids date until they're out of high school and probably college. In my opinion, children, teens, and young adults should concentrate on school and school only. Once completed with education, then they can live their lives how ever they want as long as they're successful.

Sheltering them and not allowing them to do things is just going to make them rebel even more. My parents made that mistake with me.

That's when you send them to another country to live with your family to finish their education there. Rebelling should not be tolerated either.

:P


P.S. I know I know... you white people and Americanized folks are gonna disagree. But my people don't follow those principles.

[kimmytree]

I for one will not let my kids date until they're out of high school and probably college. In my opinion, children, teens, and young adults should concentrate on school and school only. Once completed with education, then they can live their lives how ever they want as long as they're successful.

College... are you serious? I dont know what country you are in, but over here once a child turns 18, they're considered an adult and can do whatever they wish. At that point, parents have no control unless the child decides to give it to them, like I'm doing.

[illriginal]

College... are you serious? I dont know what country you are in, but over here once a child turns 18, they're considered an adult and can do whatever they wish. At that point, parents have no control unless the child decides to give it to them, like I'm doing.

Not under my roof.. trust that. If my child disrespected my honor as a parent with proper parenting skills, then I shall send them to a private school in either Italy or Dominican Republic.

My little cousin, Lisa (18 next month) who I'm so proud of, only has school buddies. She's never dated nor is she currently dating. Lisa in 8th grade already had Duke University looking over her and sending mail to my aunt/uncle about how they want to put her in a high school/university program. They declined it. Now my lil cousin Lisa, who's taking all AP courses (not even ONE elective) in her senior year is literally making AP classes look like child's play. For example... she's in calculus, and she created a calculus equation that in fact does exist already but it is used in terms of firing missiles from planet earth to outer space.


And do you know why?... Because her parents (my favorite uncle and my aunt) brought her up with proper parenting skills. Never has she rebelled, she listens to her elders, never has she cursed... at least not around the family nor at home. In fact she finds cursing to be the worst type of language in any language because it shows lack of educated vocabulary. Hell she even does the cleaning, laundry, babysitting of her lil brother, the dishes, and a bit of cooking in the house.


This to me... is the perfect child. And I give a lot of respect for a pair of parents like my uncle and aunt to bring up children into this world full of crooked, immoral, and disgusting human beings.

And if I had to, I'd move to another country, OUT of the U.S.A. just so I can bring up my children properly.

Rebel for the loss... no matter what. Parent > child.