What does it mean to be flattered? |
What does it mean to be flattered? |
Feb 27 2008, 08:52 PM
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To this day, I don't understand what it fcking means to be flattered. Is it good to say, "wow, I'm flattered"?
My life won't ever be complete until I get this. |
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Feb 28 2008, 01:50 AM
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I never say that I'm flattered by something unless someone says something about me that has me completely floored. So when I say it, it means that someone has given me a compliment that caught me off guard, made me feel great, and genuinely gave me the impression that the person meant it, even if they didn't.
The act of flattery is a deliberate attempt to make someone look good, whether it's true about them or not, and when someone says they're flattered, they're essentially saying, "That doesn't adequately portray me at all (i.e., I don't deserve that!), but I greatly appreciate it!" If an article of clothing is flattering to you, that means it does something for your body shape that makes it look good when it wouldn't normally look as good. Same goes for a hairstyle - people often cut their hair in a certain way to hide "flaws" created by their facial structure, and if it's done in a way that effectively hides these flaws, it's considered to be "flattering". I'm overdoing this, but perhaps you understand the meaning of the word. xD |
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Markster What does it mean to be flattered? Feb 27 2008, 08:52 PM
missDanish The dictionary I have says it's being in a ... Feb 27 2008, 08:59 PM
ArjunaCapulong Unless they're being sarcastic.
It's kin... Feb 27 2008, 09:02 PM
agiri It's kinda like, *compliment* *SHOCK* *speechl... Feb 27 2008, 10:14 PM
Markster LOL. Wait, so does it make you look conceited when... Feb 27 2008, 10:16 PM
tininja I don't think it makes you look conceited. It ... Feb 27 2008, 10:22 PM
missDanish @ agiri
um... to be honest I dont hear many peop... Feb 27 2008, 10:28 PM
Markster QUOTE(missDanish @ Feb 27 2008, 07:28 PM)... Feb 27 2008, 10:35 PM
Autobahn I hate thinking of ways to acknowledge compliments... Feb 27 2008, 11:18 PM
stephinika Pretty much what most people said. Its a reaction ... Feb 28 2008, 12:18 AM
Markster Ooh, I see. Very helpful. Thanks guys.
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