Stepsons banned from dating until they are 17 |
 Feb 25 2008, 11:45 PM
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My stepsons step sons are banned from dating until they are over the age of 17. If I were to permit them from dating I'm convinced they would become sexual active.
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Feb 26 2008, 01:28 AM
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Sorry. Here's my answer to your question.
We're a christian family and believe sex outside of marriage is wrong. Daniel and Rory understand and they actually believe that sex should be between a loving couple. They don't want the temptation. I can't take the tempatation away but I can make it more easy for them to choice the right path. I love them and I want them to live a good christian life. It does sound harsh but I believe that it's the right thing to do. |
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Feb 26 2008, 02:22 PM
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QUOTE(dannyt @ Feb 26 2008, 01:28 AM)  Sorry. Here's my answer to your question. We're a christian family and believe sex outside of marriage is wrong. Daniel and Rory understand and they actually believe that sex should be between a loving couple. They don't want the temptation. I can't take the tempatation away but I can make it more easy for them to choice the right path. I love them and I want them to live a good christian life. It does sound harsh but I believe that it's the right thing to do. Which is the flaw of every single religion. You cannot force your step-sons to be "good" Christians. You can lead by example, express your opinions and let them know your view that sex should be between a loving couple, but you simply cannot ban them from learning all this by themselves. You can't keep teenagers from their desires, urges and inane curiousity in the name of religion and your own beliefs. Marriage: The self-sacrifice of the woman on the altar of what she was pleased to call her principles. (Jude the Obscure) |
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dannyt Stepsons banned from dating until they are 17 Feb 25 2008, 11:45 PM
misoshiru you mean, from dating each other? amirite
the... Feb 25 2008, 11:47 PM resplendence What is with you? You list your age as 28. And in ... Feb 25 2008, 11:48 PM Heathasm are u like some kind of pedo trying to lure young ... Feb 25 2008, 11:50 PM
yrrnotelekktric QUOTE(Heathasm @ Feb 25 2008, 08:50 PM) a... Feb 25 2008, 11:55 PM BrandonSaunders Do you believe sheltering your children is condusi... Feb 25 2008, 11:52 PM misoshiru QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 26 2008, 12:5... Feb 26 2008, 12:14 AM sparrowdust moved to relationships Feb 25 2008, 11:55 PM DoubleJ I am sorry, but what jurisdiction do you have over... Feb 26 2008, 12:17 AM misoshiru JAVONN, NO BUTTSECKS TILL THEY'RE 17. Feb 26 2008, 12:22 AM DoubleJ LMAO, ok Yan, but only because you said so! Feb 26 2008, 12:26 AM dannyt I have other posts coming that are not about sex a... Feb 26 2008, 12:36 AM BrandonSaunders You posted seeking advice, I asked you a question,... Feb 26 2008, 01:06 AM Autobahn Um. No one said they were gonna start screwing all... Feb 26 2008, 01:12 AM paperplane If they really don't want the temptation, they... Feb 26 2008, 09:36 AM kimmytree Sheltering them and not allowing them to do things... Feb 27 2008, 01:02 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(dannyt @ Feb 25 2008, 11:45 PM) My ... Feb 27 2008, 01:28 PM kimmytree QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Feb 27 2008, 01:28 PM... Feb 27 2008, 01:47 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(kimmytree @ Feb 27 2008, 01:47 PM) ... Feb 28 2008, 04:32 PM misoshiru QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Feb 28 2008, 02:28 AM... Feb 28 2008, 07:30 PM resplendence ^Don't blame a country for your lack of parent... Feb 28 2008, 04:47 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(resplendence @ Feb 28 2008, 04:47 P... Feb 28 2008, 05:11 PM S-Majere QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Feb 28 2008, 05:11 PM... Feb 28 2008, 07:41 PM Orlean QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Feb 28 2008, 06:11 PM... Mar 13 2008, 09:28 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(Orlean @ Mar 13 2008, 10:28 PM) Aha... Mar 22 2008, 09:28 PM resplendence QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Mar 22 2008, 10:28 PM... Mar 23 2008, 12:25 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(resplendence @ Mar 23 2008, 01:25 A... Mar 25 2008, 11:13 AM resplendence You don't have to spoil your child. Once again... Feb 28 2008, 07:27 PM kimmytree But heck, look at pastors kids. I know about 4 or ... Feb 28 2008, 10:41 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(kimmytree @ Feb 28 2008, 10:41 PM) ... Feb 29 2008, 11:40 AM misoshiru My friend was banned from dating through highschoo... Mar 12 2008, 06:24 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(misoshiru @ Mar 12 2008, 07:24 PM) ... Mar 12 2008, 06:32 PM kayleighjay Preventing your stepsons from dating in order to k... Mar 23 2008, 04:59 PM resplendence America's literacy rate is 99%. Italy is 98.4%... Mar 25 2008, 01:50 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(resplendence @ Mar 25 2008, 02:50 P... Mar 25 2008, 02:22 PM sparrowdust Honest question, Tama, *if you live in the US*, wh... Apr 21 2008, 06:36 PM illmortal QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Apr 21 2008, 07:36 PM... Apr 21 2008, 06:44 PM doughnut uhhh okay
nothing to do with his stepsons having s... Apr 22 2008, 09:20 AM illmortal QUOTE(doughnut @ Apr 22 2008, 10:20 AM) u... Apr 22 2008, 09:27 AM Dominatrix Pretty soon you will come back to cB in like 5-10 ... Apr 23 2008, 02:49 PM illmortal Uhm... lets look at reality. That sort of moral vi... Apr 23 2008, 03:28 PM shatteredboness there are ways to be sexually active and not datin... Apr 23 2008, 09:56 PM |
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