Different beliefs? Options

[DeadlyKitten]

me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.

[NoSex]

This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopular manner.

I will never ever date a religious person again, f**king never.

[DeadlyKitten]

This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopular manner.

I will never ever date a religious person again, f**king never.

i'm not religious i'm spiritual. there is a difference. when you think of a religious person you think of someone that walks around preaching and fearing God and pretty much one who doesnt have a life. i'm not different then anyone else. i believe in God and Jesus but that doesnt mean i don't have a life. i do more things with my life then someone who doesnt even believe in God. just because i dont want to have sex and i'm confused about the things that relate to sex doesnt make me a bad person. unless i told you strait up that i am a christian you probly woldnt see any difference in me. people cringe when they hear God or Jesus and i think thats sad. but back to my point...if this thread upsets you...don't f&!$@#* read it.

[NoSex]

i'm not religious i'm spiritual. there is a difference.

1. Not a significant difference.
2. My comment wasn't about sex. I'm talking about a larger issue.
3. I don't give a shit about sex.
4. I could probably tell that you loved Jesus in less than five minutes of conversation.
5. People cringe when they hear god and Jesus? Shit, I wish!
6. Everyone does "more things in their life." You aren't impressing me.
7. I like being upset; it's interesting.

[DeadlyKitten]

1. Not a significant difference.
2. My comment wasn't about sex. I'm talking about a larger issue.
3. I don't give a shit about sex.
4. I could probably tell that you loved Jesus in less than five minutes of conversation.
5. People cringe when they hear god and Jesus? Shit, I wish!
6. Everyone does "more things in their life." You aren't impressing me.
7. I like being upset; it's interesting.

Smile much? Ever hear of antidepressants? I posted this for help not insults and I was saying you wouldn’t know I believed in God if you met me, not based on what I wrote. What I wrote had to do with sex, beliefs, and all that in between. I’m not posting things to impress people, merely to get POSSITIVE opinions. I’m sure you heard this before, but if you don’t have anything nice to say, maybe you shouldn’t say anything at all. I’m sorry if I offended you but I’m sick of posting stuff getting the same hypocritical, judgmental, assholes telling me why I’m dumb and that my boyfriend will cheat on me. So YES I’m going to stop. If he cheats he does, that’s his problem and his loss. No one on here really knows what happens cause no one even knows the whole story nor the things that go on in my head. I tried to express how I felt in hopes that someone on here can help me out. A few did but for the most part I get insulted. So am I really the immature one? I don’t go around hurting or insulating people I don’t even know. If you read my post and want to say something…try saying something nice.

[NoSex]

If you read my post and want to say something…try saying something nice.

1. I'm the happiest person I know.
2. Misinterpretations are cute.
3. Misinterpretations are still cute.