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 Feb 18 2008, 01:16 AM
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 DeadlyKitten  Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383  |
me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.
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Feb 23 2008, 02:21 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I was avoiding to read this thread for a while, and now I see why I did Why is everybody pinning this on the boyfriend? I think if anything, you get more of the blame than he does. If you believed that you didn't want to have sex and what not, then you wouldn't have done it. Your mistake was opening your legs and your mouth in the first place. At 19, you are old enough to know what you are doing, and by not doing what you said you would, you definitely dropped the ball.
Ok, you are probably thinking, well if I didn't do it, then he would have left me. SO! You should have called his bluff then, and anyway, why would you want a guy in your life that is clearly there for sex in the first place? That shows, that he really doesn't respect you or your beliefs no matter what he says. It's so obvious that he is going to cheat on you, because he told you that he enjoyed having sex with another girl. If I were in your position, I would get rid of him now, before any more feelings get involved in this. As what I say with all advice I give, whatever you do, weigh the pros and cons first, and make sure it is right for YOU. |
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DeadlyKitten Different beliefs? Feb 18 2008, 01:16 AM
Heathasm you already had sex with him...and apparently blow... Feb 18 2008, 01:21 AM Tamacracker Now a days, you're better off waitin til after... Feb 18 2008, 01:25 AM DeadlyKitten gna be 20 on the 24th. and i understand what your ... Feb 18 2008, 01:33 AM Reidar You shouldn't be pressured into anything. If h... Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM
DeadlyKitten QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM) You... Feb 18 2008, 01:53 PM
TheWinterBones QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM) You... Feb 18 2008, 04:10 PM sparrowdust QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 18 2008, 02:16 A... Feb 19 2008, 01:33 AM TheWinterBones QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 19 2008, 01:33 AM... Feb 20 2008, 11:46 AM sparrowdust QUOTE(TheWinterBones @ Feb 20 2008, 12:46... Feb 22 2008, 12:19 AM synkro someone who loves you would respect your desires. ... Feb 19 2008, 02:56 AM MissHygienic QUOTEi last had sex sometime between december 3rd ... Feb 19 2008, 03:10 AM BrandonSaunders QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 18 2008, 12:16 A... Feb 19 2008, 01:35 PM miszlaurax3 I'm a Christian too girl, and I know what you... Feb 19 2008, 08:23 PM S-Majere Presumably your boyfriend must have known your bel... Feb 20 2008, 03:36 PM synkro ^ ditto.
although, if you're being genuine ab... Feb 20 2008, 03:44 PM karmakiller If you don't want to do something just don... Feb 20 2008, 04:30 PM JCLore You should only do what you feel comfortable doing... Feb 21 2008, 04:51 AM DeadlyKitten well i told him. he said he respects it and he... Feb 23 2008, 04:36 AM Reidar Don't do anything until you're at a point ... Feb 23 2008, 05:11 AM NoSex This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopula... Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM DeadlyKitten QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM) This... Feb 23 2008, 02:07 PM NoSex QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 23 2008, 01:07 P... Feb 23 2008, 02:36 PM DeadlyKitten QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 02:36 PM) 1. N... Feb 23 2008, 02:46 PM NoSex QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 23 2008, 01:46 P... Feb 23 2008, 02:51 PM superstitious QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 01:51 PM) 1. I... Feb 24 2008, 10:11 AM JCLore QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 06:35 PM) This... Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM DeadlyKitten QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM) yea... Feb 24 2008, 01:41 AM JCLore QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 24 2008, 02:41 P... Feb 24 2008, 05:02 AM NoSex QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 24 2008, 04:02 AM) god... Feb 24 2008, 09:39 AM JCLore QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 24 2008, 10:39 PM) Like... Mar 6 2008, 10:52 PM sparrowdust i hate it when people mention God in the same brea... Feb 24 2008, 11:13 PM NoSex QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 24 2008, 10:13 PM... Feb 25 2008, 05:26 AM Reidar Nobody is really "pinning this on the boyfrie... Feb 23 2008, 03:14 PM DoubleJ Agreed, but I also don't think that she should... Feb 23 2008, 03:23 PM paperplane I <3 Nate. Feb 25 2008, 08:51 AM sparrowdust QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 25 2008, 06:26 AM) Why?... Mar 6 2008, 10:56 PM oiprincesa If a guy would honestly leave you for standing up ... May 27 2008, 01:53 PM PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL mee JEWWWESHH... mee boyyfrriendd stilll withh moi... May 27 2008, 02:17 PM JokeInsideJoke QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ May 27 2008, 03... May 27 2008, 03:25 PM Reconditee QUOTElike in my oppinion true love waits....but at... May 27 2008, 03:40 PM Sandraaa He'll definitely cheat on you. and of course,... May 27 2008, 07:16 PM |
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