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DeadlyKitten
post Feb 18 2008, 01:16 AM
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me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.
 
 
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post Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM
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This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopular manner.

I will never ever date a religious person again, f**king never.
 
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post Feb 23 2008, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM) *
This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopular manner.

I will never ever date a religious person again, f**king never.


i'm not religious i'm spiritual. there is a difference. when you think of a religious person you think of someone that walks around preaching and fearing God and pretty much one who doesnt have a life. i'm not different then anyone else. i believe in God and Jesus but that doesnt mean i don't have a life. i do more things with my life then someone who doesnt even believe in God. just because i dont want to have sex and i'm confused about the things that relate to sex doesnt make me a bad person. unless i told you strait up that i am a christian you probly woldnt see any difference in me. people cringe when they hear God or Jesus and i think thats sad. but back to my point...if this thread upsets you...don't f&!$@#* read it.
 

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DeadlyKitten   Different beliefs?   Feb 18 2008, 01:16 AM
Heathasm   you already had sex with him...and apparently blow...   Feb 18 2008, 01:21 AM
Tamacracker   Now a days, you're better off waitin til after...   Feb 18 2008, 01:25 AM
DeadlyKitten   gna be 20 on the 24th. and i understand what your ...   Feb 18 2008, 01:33 AM
Reidar   You shouldn't be pressured into anything. If h...   Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM
DeadlyKitten   QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM) You...   Feb 18 2008, 01:53 PM
TheWinterBones   QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 18 2008, 01:58 AM) You...   Feb 18 2008, 04:10 PM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 18 2008, 02:16 A...   Feb 19 2008, 01:33 AM
TheWinterBones   QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 19 2008, 01:33 AM...   Feb 20 2008, 11:46 AM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(TheWinterBones @ Feb 20 2008, 12:46...   Feb 22 2008, 12:19 AM
synkro   someone who loves you would respect your desires. ...   Feb 19 2008, 02:56 AM
MissHygienic   QUOTEi last had sex sometime between december 3rd ...   Feb 19 2008, 03:10 AM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 18 2008, 12:16 A...   Feb 19 2008, 01:35 PM
miszlaurax3   I'm a Christian too girl, and I know what you...   Feb 19 2008, 08:23 PM
S-Majere   Presumably your boyfriend must have known your bel...   Feb 20 2008, 03:36 PM
synkro   ^ ditto. although, if you're being genuine ab...   Feb 20 2008, 03:44 PM
karmakiller   If you don't want to do something just don...   Feb 20 2008, 04:30 PM
JCLore   You should only do what you feel comfortable doing...   Feb 21 2008, 04:51 AM
DeadlyKitten   well i told him. he said he respects it and he...   Feb 23 2008, 04:36 AM
Reidar   Don't do anything until you're at a point ...   Feb 23 2008, 05:11 AM
NoSex   This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopula...   Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM
DeadlyKitten   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 05:35 AM) This...   Feb 23 2008, 02:07 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 23 2008, 01:07 P...   Feb 23 2008, 02:36 PM
DeadlyKitten   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 02:36 PM) 1. N...   Feb 23 2008, 02:46 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 23 2008, 01:46 P...   Feb 23 2008, 02:51 PM
superstitious   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 01:51 PM) 1. I...   Feb 24 2008, 10:11 AM
JCLore   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 06:35 PM) This...   Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM
DeadlyKitten   QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM) yea...   Feb 24 2008, 01:41 AM
JCLore   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 24 2008, 02:41 P...   Feb 24 2008, 05:02 AM
NoSex   QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 24 2008, 04:02 AM) god...   Feb 24 2008, 09:39 AM
JCLore   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 24 2008, 10:39 PM) Like...   Mar 6 2008, 10:52 PM
sparrowdust   i hate it when people mention God in the same brea...   Feb 24 2008, 11:13 PM
NoSex   QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 24 2008, 10:13 PM...   Feb 25 2008, 05:26 AM
DoubleJ   I was avoiding to read this thread for a while, an...   Feb 23 2008, 02:21 PM
Reidar   Nobody is really "pinning this on the boyfrie...   Feb 23 2008, 03:14 PM
DoubleJ   Agreed, but I also don't think that she should...   Feb 23 2008, 03:23 PM
paperplane   I <3 Nate.   Feb 25 2008, 08:51 AM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 25 2008, 06:26 AM) Why?...   Mar 6 2008, 10:56 PM
oiprincesa   If a guy would honestly leave you for standing up ...   May 27 2008, 01:53 PM
PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL   mee JEWWWESHH... mee boyyfrriendd stilll withh moi...   May 27 2008, 02:17 PM
JokeInsideJoke   QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ May 27 2008, 03...   May 27 2008, 03:25 PM
Reconditee   QUOTElike in my oppinion true love waits....but at...   May 27 2008, 03:40 PM
Sandraaa   He'll definitely cheat on you. and of course,...   May 27 2008, 07:16 PM


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