i lied :O Options

[Heathasm]

come to think of it i cant think of a time in the past year and a half(how long we've been together) that i've actually ~lied~ about where i was and what i was doing to my bf. now, we live together and consider our relationship pretty serious but one thing ive never really gotton over about him is that he's so demanding of all my time. today my best friend and i wanted to go out to eat and just chill w/no bfs and i knew the only way i would be able to go without starting a huge fight was to lie and say i was staying late at work (lol so obvious but he believed me). after i said i was staying late he said that he was sad we wouldnt be able to spend much time together before having to goto sleep but it was ~ok~ because i was working aka making the mulah. i actually feel really bad about lying though ~_~ which is annoying but i just dont see any other way for me to peacefully hang out with my friend like that so short notice and what not.

anyway if any one has a better approach pls enlighten me or do you do similar things with your bf/gf?

[DeadlyKitten]

if he's being to demanding of time and wanting to be with you all the time...before you get pissed...take it as a compliment. maybe he see's you as his bestfriend and when he's with you he feels complete. be thankful you have a guy like that...not many are. but as fro the lying. dont. it only makes things worse. tell him you need to hang out with your other friends too. make it like a weekly thing...say..ok...i'm hanging out with her on this day and tell him he has to accept it. tell him you love him and see him as a bestfriend but even bestfriends can't be together every hour of every day. go about it in a nice way...but tell him to back off a little bit.