i lied :O Options

[Heathasm]

come to think of it i cant think of a time in the past year and a half(how long we've been together) that i've actually ~lied~ about where i was and what i was doing to my bf. now, we live together and consider our relationship pretty serious but one thing ive never really gotton over about him is that he's so demanding of all my time. today my best friend and i wanted to go out to eat and just chill w/no bfs and i knew the only way i would be able to go without starting a huge fight was to lie and say i was staying late at work (lol so obvious but he believed me). after i said i was staying late he said that he was sad we wouldnt be able to spend much time together before having to goto sleep but it was ~ok~ because i was working aka making the mulah. i actually feel really bad about lying though ~_~ which is annoying but i just dont see any other way for me to peacefully hang out with my friend like that so short notice and what not.

anyway if any one has a better approach pls enlighten me or do you do similar things with your bf/gf?

[Smilessss]

i dont think lying is a very good thing to do... i have done it before...and it was a BAD experience to do... we obviously end up fighting, and yeah when you do that, there are misunderstandings with your boyfriend though, cuz he might think you were like looking for someoneelse... so might as well tell the truth cuz its pointless when you lie, and what if he founds out? theres no where for you to run or hide, just try to explain the truth to him im sure he would understand *n.n* the key is "Communication"