"start slow", what does this mean to you? Options

[na-nancy]

okay,
so me and my my guyfriend decided to
"start slow"
for our relationship...
he means alot to me, he's the sweetest guy i've met out there.
it's indescribable..but..yeah..
and to us...
this means..."we start out as friends and move our way up"
is this term correct???
what do you think?

[fameONE]

How can you move too fast if both parties in the relationship are moving at the same pace? You can't put a time table on love, you just have to roll with it. People can be in the same stagnant relationship for months, years even, and it won't improve. Its like a stalemate. Or you can meet someone who immediately causes that 4th of July fireworks display to light up your life and you'd give anything to make them happy. If you can do it, whatever it is, not referring to "it" as something sexual, the do it.

[illriginal]

How can you move too fast if both parties in the relationship are moving at the same pace? You can't put a time table on love, you just have to roll with it. People can be in the same stagnant relationship for months, years even, and it won't improve. Its like a stalemate. Or you can meet someone who immediately causes that 4th of July fireworks display to light up your life and you'd give anything to make them happy. If you can do it, whatever it is, not referring to "it" as something sexual, the do it.

Terms of physical action... also maybe he's not sure that he's in love... or likes her soo much to keep up with her pace.

I believe if you have a friendship... a strong one at that, all it takes is for you to sleep with each other and that friendship goes on a whole different level. May go sour.. or may be sweet as honey dew.


You gotta listen to Last Emperor... this thread makes me think about some of his tracks.