i lied :O Options

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come to think of it i cant think of a time in the past year and a half(how long we've been together) that i've actually ~lied~ about where i was and what i was doing to my bf. now, we live together and consider our relationship pretty serious but one thing ive never really gotton over about him is that he's so demanding of all my time. today my best friend and i wanted to go out to eat and just chill w/no bfs and i knew the only way i would be able to go without starting a huge fight was to lie and say i was staying late at work (lol so obvious but he believed me). after i said i was staying late he said that he was sad we wouldnt be able to spend much time together before having to goto sleep but it was ~ok~ because i was working aka making the mulah. i actually feel really bad about lying though ~_~ which is annoying but i just dont see any other way for me to peacefully hang out with my friend like that so short notice and what not.

anyway if any one has a better approach pls enlighten me or do you do similar things with your bf/gf?

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i did ask him about it and he said he didnt mean it he just said it cause he was mad and that is it but . . . ? u dont just say something like that and not mean anything by it plus he has this animosity towards her that he wont admit LOL idk its really weird, but like i said lying seemed the only way to avoid it this time.

but yeah i am going to try and talk to him about it again i guess. or maybe i can take a bat and hit him in the head until his brain goes retarded. i could live with that