Different beliefs? Options

[DeadlyKitten]

me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.

[JCLore]

You should only do what you feel comfortable doing. Dont't think that you have to participate in any sexual activities just keep him from leaving you. My ex-gf wanted to do some stuff that i really didn't want to until after marriage (thats why we broke up). I may not have loved her like i do my current gf....but i was afraid it wouldn't work out and i really didn't want to deny her anything, but i did not want to "engage" in the activities she wanted to. If he really loves you, then i think he shouldn't make you feel uncomfortable out of respect for your feelings.

Hope that helped
Good luck