Different beliefs? Options

[DeadlyKitten]

me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.

[miszlaurax3]

I'm a Christian too girl, and I know what you're going through. If he really loved you, he would put your beliefs and values before his personal needs, and if he cheats, then you don't deserve him at all. If you don't wanna do somethin, then you don't wanna do it point blank, and nobody should be forced to do something that they dont wanna do. If you wanna force yourself, then how about forcing yourself to leave him? You don't need people in your life who don't encourage you to better yourself. It's okay that you already had sex with him, people make bad judgement at times, its not the end of the world, but you know that it was wrong, so why not right the wrong with getting out the situation alltogether? Pray about it =] <3