Different beliefs? Options

[DeadlyKitten]

me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.

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Now a days, you're better off waitin til after college to get into mature relationship. High school has this huge peer pressure of havin sex and doing drugs.

Just stay true to yourself and your belief system. Your boyfriend, which you love... is nothin but just another human. There's millions more out there.

To be quite honest, many men cheat when they get "some" then all of a sudden they stop gettin "some".

If you haven't told him yet, let him know that you wish not to have sexual activities.. not even HJs or BJs. Tell him you're devoting your life to God and you must follow his laws.

If he can't respect that, then he obviously doesn't believe in God. And you should dump him.


BTW.. may I ask how old are you?