disgusted and confused.. Options

[dpl313]

I am a nice guy. I'm a good person, etc. But I have had nothing but horrible experiences with dating. Most recently I went out on a date with a girl. It seemed to go well. She said she wanted a 2nd date. Then she told me she was more comfortable talking online. Then she rejected me on valentine's day.

So it has me thinking do girls go for guys that are a**holes more than a guy that is nice?? I don't mean a guy that is overly nice either.

Also, I'm 21 and a virgin. I've had chances to lose it, but I haven't. I've been thinking I would save it for that special person. What a dummy I've been for thinking that, because the people I keep meeting are nowhere near special! My cousin and a few of my guy friends keep telling me to just lose it. They say I'll feel more confident, and I'll do better with dating. Is that true??

Do girls look down on guys that are virgins? I say that, because I've been out with girls, and I've said I'm a virgin. They'll say encouraging words, but you can see a look of disappointment on their face.

[Reidar]

"Girls" isn't a single entity. Some girls will like you. Others will not.

More importantly, who cares? Be who you want to be. If it's not enough for someone, then she isn't worthy of you. Have some pride. You should be so content with yourself as a person that you'd be willing to live your life alone if it came down to it and nobody ever liked you (which won't happen, so this isn't a literal mind-set), such are the strength of your principles. Unless you're a Nazi or something. Then you'd want to do something about your ideals, yeah.

Sticking your wang in a vagina isn't going to change anything. Big whoop de do. Amphibians spawn all the time, and they're nothing special.

You sound like you're seeking a significant other just for the sake of being with someone. Don't count the days; make the days count.

Gross, that was sophisticated and stuff. BLARGH SOCKS! WAFFLES! SNORT.

Better.