Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi! |
Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi! |
Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
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Ok, This is what is going on.
My boyfriend gets off to 13 and 12 year olds. I mean this has been going on for a while. I started dating him when I was 14 and that is a close age to what I was right? But now we are growing up and he is 19 now.. I am now 17. This is a problem. My 19 year old boyfriend thinks 12 and 13 year olds are attractive? What would you people do. Would you dump him even though you have been dating for 2 years and 4 months. Or would you still go out with him and just keep an eye on him and keep thinking that he is thinking about 13 year olds when we are having sex. gay Help please thanks.. |
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Feb 7 2008, 09:00 AM
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how did you feel about him before you knew about this?
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Feb 7 2008, 11:11 PM
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how did you feel about him before you knew about this? What a random question. I felt like I knew him. It seems like I don't. I felt happy and joyful that I was his and he was mine. I felt a sence of pride in him because he is amazing even though he has problems. I felt safe and sacure. I still feel all these things and they will never change. No matter what fedishes he has for other things. Even if he liked to rape dogs in the ass. I would still feel this way. I love him and I probley always will. I am proud to say it. I finaly talked to him and told him how I felt the hole sha-deal.I told him that I was really irritated with the fact that he thought little girls are attractive. He says that it is a problem and he said its not like he is going out looking for little girls to rape.. he said it was sick. I agreed. He said we will work with this problem together and we will deal with it in our own way. Even if that means going to a shrink. We love eachother and it is ok to get annoyed with the people that you love. It cant be all happy joy joy all the time we would go insane. I do also think that I will take pictures of myself and get rid of the other porn. That's a start right? |
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oXMuhNirvanaXo Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.. Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
MissHygienic How did you find this out? Does he explicitly tell... Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM... Feb 3 2008, 02:44 PM
MissHygienic QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 3 2008, 02:44 ... Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM... Feb 3 2008, 02:55 PM
Reidar Possession of child pornography is a crime. Turn h... Feb 3 2008, 03:06 PM
RockItStudios I suggest therapy.
No, seriously. If he can admit ... Feb 3 2008, 03:11 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo Ok let me more discriptive.. The girls are not all... Feb 3 2008, 03:24 PM
Reidar Doesn't matter. If they're engaged in sexu... Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM) Does... Feb 3 2008, 10:13 PM
misoshiru still child porn.
he either needs help now, or may... Feb 3 2008, 10:21 PM
DoubleJ Agreed. I love how in your beginning post, you wer... Feb 4 2008, 12:13 AM
Reidar You should be disgusted with him. Beyond it being ... Feb 4 2008, 12:42 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo Sorry if I am defending it with everypost I just w... Feb 4 2008, 07:15 PM
Orlean QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ... Feb 4 2008, 08:43 PM
Reidar QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ... Feb 4 2008, 08:44 PM
misoshiru ...
if i had a brother, and if he were into chi... Feb 4 2008, 08:16 PM
instantmusic My unsympathetic advice: he drops the nasty act o... Feb 4 2008, 08:35 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo How would I say this to him thinking that I don... Feb 4 2008, 09:33 PM
BrandonSaunders QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 08:33 ... Feb 4 2008, 11:59 PM
miyashu QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 4 2008, 11:59... Feb 5 2008, 11:47 AM
Orlean "Even though I can't help it" is the... Feb 4 2008, 10:44 PM
Insurmountable You need to tell him that he needs to get help, ev... Feb 5 2008, 05:08 AM
S-Majere That is pretty worrying. Regardless of how well yo... Feb 5 2008, 06:11 AM
jaeman I agree with many of the replies already made on t... Feb 5 2008, 06:53 AM
limmjohnsonlayouts07 i really agree with everyone's suggestions and... Feb 5 2008, 10:58 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo QUOTE(limmjohnsonlayouts07 @ Feb 5 2008, 10... Feb 6 2008, 10:26 PM
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