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Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi!
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post Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
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Ok, This is what is going on.
My boyfriend gets off to 13 and 12 year olds. I mean this has been going on for a while. I started dating him when I was 14 and that is a close age to what I was right? But now we are growing up and he is 19 now.. I am now 17. This is a problem.
My 19 year old boyfriend thinks 12 and 13 year olds are attractive?
What would you people do. Would you dump him even though you have been dating for 2 years and 4 months. Or would you still go out with him and just keep an eye on him and keep thinking that he is thinking about 13 year olds when we are having sex.

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post Feb 7 2008, 09:00 AM
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how did you feel about him before you knew about this?
 
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post Feb 7 2008, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(ProudLeechLover @ Feb 7 2008, 09:00 AM) *
how did you feel about him before you knew about this?


What a random question. I felt like I knew him. It seems like I don't. I felt happy and joyful that I was his and he was mine. I felt a sence of pride in him because he is amazing even though he has problems. I felt safe and sacure. I still feel all these things and they will never change. No matter what fedishes he has for other things. Even if he liked to rape dogs in the ass. I would still feel this way. I love him and I probley always will. I am proud to say it.

I finaly talked to him and told him how I felt the hole sha-deal.I told him that I was really irritated with the fact that he thought little girls are attractive. He says that it is a problem and he said its not like he is going out looking for little girls to rape.. he said it was sick. I agreed. He said we will work with this problem together and we will deal with it in our own way. Even if that means going to a shrink. We love eachother and it is ok to get annoyed with the people that you love. It cant be all happy joy joy all the time we would go insane. I do also think that I will take pictures of myself and get rid of the other porn. That's a start right?
 

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oXMuhNirvanaXo   Huge problem and I have no idea what to do..   Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
MissHygienic   How did you find this out? Does he explicitly tell...   Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM...   Feb 3 2008, 02:44 PM
MissHygienic   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 3 2008, 02:44 ...   Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM...   Feb 3 2008, 02:55 PM
Reidar   Possession of child pornography is a crime. Turn h...   Feb 3 2008, 03:06 PM
RockItStudios   I suggest therapy. No, seriously. If he can admit ...   Feb 3 2008, 03:11 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   Ok let me more discriptive.. The girls are not all...   Feb 3 2008, 03:24 PM
Reidar   Doesn't matter. If they're engaged in sexu...   Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM) Does...   Feb 3 2008, 10:13 PM
misoshiru   still child porn. he either needs help now, or may...   Feb 3 2008, 10:21 PM
DoubleJ   Agreed. I love how in your beginning post, you wer...   Feb 4 2008, 12:13 AM
Reidar   You should be disgusted with him. Beyond it being ...   Feb 4 2008, 12:42 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   Sorry if I am defending it with everypost I just w...   Feb 4 2008, 07:15 PM
Orlean   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ...   Feb 4 2008, 08:43 PM
Reidar   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ...   Feb 4 2008, 08:44 PM
misoshiru   ... if i had a brother, and if he were into chi...   Feb 4 2008, 08:16 PM
instantmusic   My unsympathetic advice: he drops the nasty act o...   Feb 4 2008, 08:35 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   How would I say this to him thinking that I don...   Feb 4 2008, 09:33 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 08:33 ...   Feb 4 2008, 11:59 PM
miyashu   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 4 2008, 11:59...   Feb 5 2008, 11:47 AM
Orlean   "Even though I can't help it" is the...   Feb 4 2008, 10:44 PM
Insurmountable   You need to tell him that he needs to get help, ev...   Feb 5 2008, 05:08 AM
S-Majere   That is pretty worrying. Regardless of how well yo...   Feb 5 2008, 06:11 AM
jaeman   I agree with many of the replies already made on t...   Feb 5 2008, 06:53 AM
limmjohnsonlayouts07   i really agree with everyone's suggestions and...   Feb 5 2008, 10:58 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(limmjohnsonlayouts07 @ Feb 5 2008, 10...   Feb 6 2008, 10:26 PM
limmjohnsonlayouts07   well congrats on your anniversary! i hope that...   Feb 7 2008, 12:55 AM
malimars   Yuck thats disgusting!! Its guys like that...   Feb 7 2008, 01:26 AM
ProudLeechLover   how did you feel about him before you knew about t...   Feb 7 2008, 09:00 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(ProudLeechLover @ Feb 7 2008, 09:00...   Feb 7 2008, 11:11 PM


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