Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi! Options

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Ok, This is what is going on.
My boyfriend gets off to 13 and 12 year olds. I mean this has been going on for a while. I started dating him when I was 14 and that is a close age to what I was right? But now we are growing up and he is 19 now.. I am now 17. This is a problem.
My 19 year old boyfriend thinks 12 and 13 year olds are attractive?
What would you people do. Would you dump him even though you have been dating for 2 years and 4 months. Or would you still go out with him and just keep an eye on him and keep thinking that he is thinking about 13 year olds when we are having sex.

gay

Help please thanks..

[Melie]

i really agree with everyone's suggestions and advice. i understand that you love this man but if he loved you like he says, then he wouldn't need pics of younger little girls and what's worse: in their underwear!!!

there is a fine line right here of a future pedophile and therapy is the only option for him unless he wants to go to jail. unfortunately he stopped loving you when he started looking at little girls' pic. he may have love for you, but may not still be in love. if you were 13 right now and a 19 year old was so interested in you that he wanted pics of you in your underwear, then you would probably worry and tell your parents. i may not be an expert but i really think that this is something very serious that it needs to be solved immediately.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

i really agree with everyone's suggestions and advice. i understand that you love this man but if he loved you like he says, then he wouldn't need pics of younger little girls and what's worse: in their underwear!!!

there is a fine line right here of a future pedophile and therapy is the only option for him unless he wants to go to jail. unfortunately he stopped loving you when he started looking at little girls' pic. he may have love for you, but may not still be in love. if you were 13 right now and a 19 year old was so interested in you that he wanted pics of you in your underwear, then you would probably worry and tell your parents. i may not be an expert but i really think that this is something very serious that it needs to be solved immediately.

I know but just because he looks at little girls does not mean that he dosent love me. I know many other men that look at porn maybe not little kid porn and still love their other half. It's just a male thing. Things don't change just because he looks at little girls insted of 50 year olds.. He is a really trobled person I am not going to say that he is not. He has depression problems.. he is bipolor.. he has mood swings rapidly.. He even said once that he tryed to kill him self once in middle school but he said that he will never do it again... he is very hard to get along with sometimes and he hates to go out and do things. He hates my friends and seems never happy with anything. He also says shit that pisses me off and really hurt. Don't get me wrong. He makes me happy when he is happy. I really don't know what I would do with out his sorry ass. He is amazing when he is in a good mood. He has pills for his depression which helps. I mean I don't always get calls of him crying on the phone. That happend once. It was bad plus I was drunk. It just didn't work. I know I am saying alot of really bad things right now but I am telling you who he is. He is a big part of my life. Maybe I should go on break. Think about things. Would that help?

editing//

To leave on a good note last Thursday I got my wisdom teeth out and I have been really sick. He stayed over and took care of me for a few days. Even when I puking so its not like he does not love me. Tomorrow is our annaverery. 2 years and 4 months