Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi! |
 Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
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Ok, This is what is going on.
My boyfriend gets off to 13 and 12 year olds. I mean this has been going on for a while. I started dating him when I was 14 and that is a close age to what I was right? But now we are growing up and he is 19 now.. I am now 17. This is a problem. My 19 year old boyfriend thinks 12 and 13 year olds are attractive? What would you people do. Would you dump him even though you have been dating for 2 years and 4 months. Or would you still go out with him and just keep an eye on him and keep thinking that he is thinking about 13 year olds when we are having sex. gay Help please thanks.. 
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Feb 4 2008, 09:33 PM
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How would I say this to him thinking that I don't love him. I know I could just say.. Hey.. what your doing is sick and discusting and your acting like a freak because you are attracted to young children and you should be a shamed even though you cant help it.. but since you are a pig I am going to dump you if you dont stop? no.. there has to be a better way. PLEASE Share your ideas
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Feb 4 2008, 11:59 PM
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QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 08:33 PM)  How would I say this to him thinking that I don't love him. I know I could just say.. Hey.. what your doing is sick and discusting and your acting like a freak because you are attracted to young children and you should be a shamed even though you cant help it.. but since you are a pig I am going to dump you if you dont stop? no.. there has to be a better way. PLEASE Share your ideas Toughen the hell up and approach this like a level-headed individual. Common sense prevails. If he can't give up getting off to the younglings, then you need to give him up. Do you know what they do to sexual predators in prison? Karma's a bitch. Sooner or later, someone that obsessed with kiddies is going to want to act out on it. If that happens, its on you as well. |
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Feb 5 2008, 11:47 AM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 4 2008, 11:59 PM) Toughen the hell up and approach this like a level-headed individual. Common sense prevails. If he can't give up getting off to the younglings, then you need to give him up. Do you know what they do to sexual predators in prison? Karma's a bitch. Sooner or later, someone that obsessed with kiddies is going to want to act out on it. If that happens, its on you as well. Agreeing with Brandon on this issue. Don't beat around the bush and don't feel ashamed to approach your boyfriend about it. Take control of this situation and be direct with your feelings. Sometimes, there just isn't a 'better' way to say things. Best of luck. |
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oXMuhNirvanaXo Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.. Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
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