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Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi!
oXMuhNirvanaXo
post Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
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Ok, This is what is going on.
My boyfriend gets off to 13 and 12 year olds. I mean this has been going on for a while. I started dating him when I was 14 and that is a close age to what I was right? But now we are growing up and he is 19 now.. I am now 17. This is a problem.
My 19 year old boyfriend thinks 12 and 13 year olds are attractive?
What would you people do. Would you dump him even though you have been dating for 2 years and 4 months. Or would you still go out with him and just keep an eye on him and keep thinking that he is thinking about 13 year olds when we are having sex.

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post Feb 5 2008, 10:58 AM
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i really agree with everyone's suggestions and advice. i understand that you love this man but if he loved you like he says, then he wouldn't need pics of younger little girls and what's worse: in their underwear!!!

there is a fine line right here of a future pedophile and therapy is the only option for him unless he wants to go to jail. unfortunately he stopped loving you when he started looking at little girls' pic. he may have love for you, but may not still be in love. if you were 13 right now and a 19 year old was so interested in you that he wanted pics of you in your underwear, then you would probably worry and tell your parents. i may not be an expert but i really think that this is something very serious that it needs to be solved immediately.
 

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oXMuhNirvanaXo   Huge problem and I have no idea what to do..   Feb 3 2008, 02:33 PM
MissHygienic   How did you find this out? Does he explicitly tell...   Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:38 PM...   Feb 3 2008, 02:44 PM
MissHygienic   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 3 2008, 02:44 ...   Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 3 2008, 02:50 PM...   Feb 3 2008, 02:55 PM
Reidar   Possession of child pornography is a crime. Turn h...   Feb 3 2008, 03:06 PM
RockItStudios   I suggest therapy. No, seriously. If he can admit ...   Feb 3 2008, 03:11 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   Ok let me more discriptive.. The girls are not all...   Feb 3 2008, 03:24 PM
Reidar   Doesn't matter. If they're engaged in sexu...   Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(Reidar @ Feb 3 2008, 03:29 PM) Does...   Feb 3 2008, 10:13 PM
misoshiru   still child porn. he either needs help now, or may...   Feb 3 2008, 10:21 PM
DoubleJ   Agreed. I love how in your beginning post, you wer...   Feb 4 2008, 12:13 AM
Reidar   You should be disgusted with him. Beyond it being ...   Feb 4 2008, 12:42 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   Sorry if I am defending it with everypost I just w...   Feb 4 2008, 07:15 PM
Orlean   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ...   Feb 4 2008, 08:43 PM
Reidar   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 07:15 ...   Feb 4 2008, 08:44 PM
misoshiru   ... if i had a brother, and if he were into chi...   Feb 4 2008, 08:16 PM
instantmusic   My unsympathetic advice: he drops the nasty act o...   Feb 4 2008, 08:35 PM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   How would I say this to him thinking that I don...   Feb 4 2008, 09:33 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(oXMuhNirvanaXo @ Feb 4 2008, 08:33 ...   Feb 4 2008, 11:59 PM
miyashu   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 4 2008, 11:59...   Feb 5 2008, 11:47 AM
Orlean   "Even though I can't help it" is the...   Feb 4 2008, 10:44 PM
Insurmountable   You need to tell him that he needs to get help, ev...   Feb 5 2008, 05:08 AM
S-Majere   That is pretty worrying. Regardless of how well yo...   Feb 5 2008, 06:11 AM
jaeman   I agree with many of the replies already made on t...   Feb 5 2008, 06:53 AM
limmjohnsonlayouts07   i really agree with everyone's suggestions and...   Feb 5 2008, 10:58 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(limmjohnsonlayouts07 @ Feb 5 2008, 10...   Feb 6 2008, 10:26 PM
limmjohnsonlayouts07   well congrats on your anniversary! i hope that...   Feb 7 2008, 12:55 AM
malimars   Yuck thats disgusting!! Its guys like that...   Feb 7 2008, 01:26 AM
ProudLeechLover   how did you feel about him before you knew about t...   Feb 7 2008, 09:00 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   QUOTE(ProudLeechLover @ Feb 7 2008, 09:00...   Feb 7 2008, 11:11 PM


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