How do you know..., your over weight...aka FAT? Options

[DeadlyKitten]

I've thought I was fat ever since I was 10. I have had eating problems since I was 15. It caused me to get very sick. I eat everyday now...probly not as much as i should. I weigh 140lbs and think I'm fat. My bf, my familly, my friends, and even the people i work with call me crazy. I'm only 5'3 and I think I should only weigh 110lbs. I grew up with my brother calling me fat and a bestfriend that got every guy over me. I now realize it was because she was a whore, but thats a whole nother story. My measurements are 34, 27, 38. I have a flat stomach but I have a big butt. lol My bf says i should show it off. I think its discusting. I want to be able to fit into a size 2 or 3 pair of jeans...rather then a 7. I dono...am I crazy? or do I need to lose weight?

[Smarmosaur]

Hunny, honestly, size 7 is nothing. You are /not/ overweight, nor are you fat. You just may...have some child chub on you. I'm going to take a guess and say you're normal weight. You don't have to be the typical hollywood blonde size 2. Just be yourself, learn to love your body, start looking at the positive's. Nothing out of the ordinary. :]

[DeadlyKitten]

Hunny, honestly, size 7 is nothing. You are /not/ overweight, nor are you fat. You just may...have some child chub on you. I'm going to take a guess and say you're normal weight. You don't have to be the typical hollywood blonde size 2. Just be yourself, learn to love your body, start looking at the positive's. Nothing out of the ordinary. :]

haha yeah...i plan on doing work-outs and eating better...not just to lose weight but to be healthy. i have a heart condition wear my body has trouble getting blood to flow to my head...i get light headed offten, horible head aches, and chest pains. my dr. said i can help get rid of this by eating healthier and exercising at least 3 trimes a week. i got this way from starving myself and going on crash diets. i learned from that thow...any girl that wants to starve themselves, deserves a smack. if i would have known i'd end up in the hospital because my heart would get so weak, do to the fact that my body was eating itself, and i'd end up in a near death condition i would have ate ALOT more. my dr. said if i would have continued to do that to myself i was risking my heart just quiting on me. my blood pressure can pretty much drop so low my heart will stop and i could die. i go every other day of my life feeling tired, weak, and just plain un-healthy. i was so stupid for that.