Being replaced, sucks Options

[Melissa]

I know I'm being irrational, but here goes.

I have this really close guy friend. We're not best friends, we're just really close. We've got ... this whole vibe; he understands me, I understand him, we have our own "language" and basically, we connect pretty freaking well and I like it that way.

Today he started getting to know this other girl on my floor that I like and have no problem with... until things started to feel like she was trying to replace me. She saw a few pictures of the two of us (him and I) on his phone and suddenly, she wants a picture with him and takes like, ten million pictures of the two of them together on his phone. I know it's petty and immature, but it irked me a little, but then I was like "oh well, whatever." We're all in the floor lounge together and she starts talking to him about how omg, you and I are so ALIKE! you're like me in a guy's body! blah blah blah blah blah f**king blah!!!. Then it's like they keep talking and getting closer and I'm just sitting there staring at the TV and pretending not to be annoyed.

It's not like he has no other female friends and it's not like I even really care if he does or doesn't, it's just that... the two of them are acting exactly how he and I act and suddenly, it's like after two f**king hours, they've got their own little inside jokes and if I want to talk to him, he's too busy talking to her! Our friendship has been six months in the making and she talks to him for a few hours and suddenly, I feel like I'm replaced!

I WANT the two of them to be friends and all, I'm not saying I have a problem with that... it's just that... I feel so expendable. =[

[queen]

imo, all friends are expendable.

but to get back on your issue, i think it's just a phase. most likely they'll run outta stuff to talk about, and things will go back the way it used to be between you and him.

...do you think the only reason she started talking to him was 'cause of the way she saw your relationship with him? girls are shady like that ;x. after she gets tired of the attention, they'll probably part ways.

[S-Majere]

imo, all friends are expendable.

LOL, I thought I was the only one in the world with such a harsh outlook on friends. I always seem to replace mine or fall out with them after six months or so. Ha.

Seriously, you seem like this guy a lot and I'm at a loss of what to suggest you do. This whole situation reminds me of one I was in three or four years ago. Didn't end well, jealousy is such a green goddess.