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[theguardsman]

guys..i need help again
what should i do to show that i care for me girl...
my girl thinks that i dun care bout her..
but the thing is that my parents are so harsh on me...they grounded me recently cuz i got home drunk
so then..ididnt see my girl for like a week..but it seems forever for me.
but now im on holidays so then i can see her or at least do something special...any ideas?
i dun wana screw this up before valentine's....
please helpp!!!
wt shud i do to my girlto show her i care bout her

[theguardsman]

like i dunt think she rly knows how hard i try to get out aand see her recently...she told me to go out on saturday or sunday...but i cudnt...cuz im grounded..but ive been trying to convince my parents to just let me go out one day with my friends..but they just wudnt. they want me to "shop" with them...ive been trying SO SO hard..like literally annoying them to let me go find my "friend" (cuz i didnt tell them bout it) for the whole fking day...and they just wudnt..but idun think my gf knows it...i think she just think i dun try hard enuf to convince my parents to let me find her..and probably not showing that i care bout her...hoenstly, ithink i shud get her more things..ive only gave her like a necklace and a bracelt for the whole time we've dated. i duno.

ive told her a million times and she thinks its just words. i think i shud rly do something asap. but i hv no idea. flowers is a bit too cheesy and ordinary (no offense).

yeah. ive thought bout a surprise..but wt shud it be...something more..special wud be better hahaha

[superficial]

like i dunt think she rly knows how hard i try to get out aand see her recently...she told me to go out on saturday or sunday...but i cudnt...cuz im grounded..but ive been trying to convince my parents to just let me go out one day with my friends..but they just wudnt. they want me to "shop" with them...ive been trying SO SO hard..like literally annoying them to let me go find my "friend" (cuz i didnt tell them bout it) for the whole fking day...and they just wudnt..but idun think my gf knows it...i think she just think i dun try hard enuf to convince my parents to let me find her..and probably not showing that i care bout her...hoenstly, ithink i shud get her more things..ive only gave her like a necklace and a bracelt for the whole time we've dated. i duno.

ive told her a million times and she thinks its just words. i think i shud rly do something asap. but i hv no idea. flowers is a bit too cheesy and ordinary (no offense).

yeah. ive thought bout a surprise..but wt shud it be...something more..special wud be better hahaha

Decorate her locker and put pictures of you guys around it. Put "Your name + Her name" on the locker or something. Haha, I got that from One Tree Hill... but that's a good idea. I'm sure she'll find some sincerity in that. And put it with lots of girly stuff and put ribbons and bows everywhere. And when she opens her locker, come out with something (idk, use your imagination) and tell her you really do care about her and that you love her. I'm pretty sure she'll believe you this time.

Oh, and if that's the problem about you being grounded, then you should try to explain it to her and tell her why you've not been going out/hanging out with her lately. I'm sure she'll understand. Can't you contact her other ways and try to talk to her on MySpace, AIM, MSN, or by phone? But you don't always have to be materialistic and give her gifts. You can simply just act like her boyfriend, and act like a good one. Trust me, things that make a relationship grow is things that you cannot buy, but things that you can do.