Possible Problem?, too good for my own good? |
Possible Problem?, too good for my own good? |
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![]() cvchango ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 ![]() |
Background:
I like this girl a lot, and I've already asked her to prom. I've been hanging out w/ this girl every weekend for a while now. Usually we see each other about 2 times a week out of school, because she comes to my soccer games. We've become pretty much best friends, and soon I will try to take our relationship to the next step. I guess if there would ever be a good problem, this is it: When it comes to hanging out, I think going out to movies/malls, late night ice cream runs, watching movies together at home, and other usual activities are lame, boring, and old. Let's rate these ideas a 2/10. I try really hard to think of fun and different things to do, and I've done a pretty job of it to this point. Let's rate my ideas a 9/10. The problem is I am not sure if I can keep coming up with cool things to do. I am nervous about running out of things to do and becoming boring. I think she has raised her expectations and expects me to be creative. Is this a decent fear, or am I overreacting? Basically, is this going to turn into a problem for me? and I've been on cb for about two years now, still haven't figured out how to search. I'm sure there are plenty of topics on dating/hanging out ideas, so if anyone can post the links, it'll be much appreciated. |
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Member ![]() ![]() Group: Ask Alice Posts: 26 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,954 ![]() |
Some of the best and most interesting times with a person can be spent simply talking to eachother on a couch. That being said, it's normal for a couple that is just blossoming to go out and do things all the time. You may consider those things boring now, but the more time goes on and the better you get to know eachother, just staying in and watching a movie with some Chinese food sounds more appealing. I really wouldn't worry too much about it. You should try just simply hanging out with her sometime. You may be surprised at how well you guys get to know eachother through conversation.
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