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gr00vyswordsman
post Jan 29 2008, 11:13 AM
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i understand asking questions elicits responses from others, not only that but emotions as well. But how really do you get others to open up in conversation...getting them comfortable with you?
 
 
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MissHygienic
post Jan 29 2008, 02:13 PM
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People are harder to trust these days, so asking a bunch of questions to someone who doesn't feel like he or she knows you well enough isn't going to work. I don't open up to anyone besides my boyfriend. You're going to have to do some work, as well, proving yourself a worthy confidant.
 

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gr00vyswordsman   people...how do you get others to open up   Jan 29 2008, 11:13 AM
S-Majere   Take them out for a beer. Never. Fails.   Jan 29 2008, 11:39 AM
IGetSex   QUOTE(gr00vyswordsman @ Jan 29 2008, 11:1...   Jan 29 2008, 12:21 PM
Orlean   Ask them questions you think they would feel comfo...   Jan 29 2008, 12:36 PM
MissFits   Some people are just shy and they will open up to ...   Jan 29 2008, 12:40 PM
MissHygienic   People are harder to trust these days, so asking a...   Jan 29 2008, 02:13 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(gr00vyswordsman @ Jan 29 2008, 11:1...   Jan 29 2008, 03:40 PM
IGetSex   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 29 2008, 03:40 P...   Jan 29 2008, 10:24 PM
ComradeAlex   I show them that I am trustworthy and care first. ...   Jan 29 2008, 07:38 PM
misoshiru   drown them in vodka, or tequila, or whatever else ...   Jan 29 2008, 10:13 PM
nguoicasison   sayy wat.../ wtff iawtc.../   Jan 29 2008, 10:48 PM
IGetSex   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 29 2008, 10:48 P...   Jan 29 2008, 10:51 PM
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JCLore   it depends on the person you could compliment them...   Jan 29 2008, 11:30 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(JCLore @ Jan 29 2008, 11:30 PM) it ...   Jan 29 2008, 11:34 PM
JCLore   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 30 2008, 12:34 P...   Jan 30 2008, 12:08 AM
misoshiru   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 30 2008, 12:34 P...   Jan 30 2008, 12:14 AM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(JCLore @ Jan 30 2008, 12:08 AM) du...   Jan 30 2008, 09:02 AM
gr00vyswordsman   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 30 2008, 10:02 A...   Jan 30 2008, 09:42 AM
JCLore   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 30 2008, 10:02 P...   Jan 30 2008, 10:12 AM
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JCLore   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 31 2008, 04:58 A...   Jan 30 2008, 08:04 PM
RealTalk   I just keep talking with them on a regular basis t...   Feb 1 2008, 05:06 PM


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