Should single people be allowed to post in relationship threads? Options

[Tung]

I been stalking the relationship forum alot lately, and there's some certain people who "try" to post helpful opinions and thoughts about the situation, when it's obvious they don't know what the fuck they are talking about. These are the people who are single, and never had a gf/bf in their entire life. How can a person who's been single all their life help someone who is asking for help about a problem with his/her gf/bf? They shouldn't, because they never had any experience to actually know what the OP is going through, and it's tiresome and annoying to read such ignorant post by these members. A prime example would be JClore. He's obviously single and never touched a girl in his life, and he's all over the relationship forum like he's some ladie's man who actually knows something.

This isn't member bashing btw, just using an example.

[dustbunny]

first of all, no where did I say that someone else's definition of love was wrong.

second of all, I specifically mentioned how being observant has absolutely NOTHING to do with anything.

thirdly, maturity does factor in. you think some retarded kid is gonna spit the same kinda shit I would spit about relationships to my friends? I hate to bring myself into this, but honestly I do know a lot more about relationships than the average teen. why? because my friends have been in shitloads of relationships, and I experienced basically everything they did. of course, I obviously lack the emotions, but that doesn't mean I can't spit meaningful advice that someone only outside of the relationship unhindered by love and completely detached and lucid could see. additionally, I can use my own experiences as well, so just because I haven't been in an "official" relationship, it doesn't means shit if I've been through the same f**king thing emotionally.

finally, I emphasized on PERSPECTIVE, so get it straight, no one is trying to undermine your LOVE okay?


/edit. I realize your post might not have been directed towards me, but I basically replied as if you had.