Should single people be allowed to post in relationship threads? Options

[Tung]

I been stalking the relationship forum alot lately, and there's some certain people who "try" to post helpful opinions and thoughts about the situation, when it's obvious they don't know what the fuck they are talking about. These are the people who are single, and never had a gf/bf in their entire life. How can a person who's been single all their life help someone who is asking for help about a problem with his/her gf/bf? They shouldn't, because they never had any experience to actually know what the OP is going through, and it's tiresome and annoying to read such ignorant post by these members. A prime example would be JClore. He's obviously single and never touched a girl in his life, and he's all over the relationship forum like he's some ladie's man who actually knows something.

This isn't member bashing btw, just using an example.

[Comptine]

You can't be a teenager and tell another teenager that their definition or emotion of love is wrong.

I don't give a crap if you're a way mature teenager or super sleuth: no matter how observant you are, if you've never been in a relationship, you have no right to correct or critique others'. okay, if the boyfriend is abusive, you have common sense to back up on. however, if it's just your girlfriend being confused and you have no experience under your belt, you can only repeat what you THINK is love/relationship. If you've never been in a serious relationship or even in one, you are about as knowledgeable as any of your peers, even if you surveillance them 24/7.

what i meant my being observant is that single non relationship people like to go, "Look for this in a guy." or "look for that." or "do this" all because "i'm really observant and i see all these different relationships so i can like you know create a wikipedia all of it."

if you are that observant to see the kinks and inner workings of relationships, without actually risking being in a relationship, you could formulate the right way to make a relationship or pick a guy to be with.

In the end, me and you know the same amount of shit about love and relationships.