Log In · Register

 
Possible Problem?, too good for my own good?
31miracles
post Jan 27 2008, 07:07 PM
Post #1


cvchango
*****

Group: Human
Posts: 492
Joined: Dec 2005
Member No: 332,717



Background:
I like this girl a lot, and I've already asked her to prom. I've been hanging out w/ this girl every weekend for a while now. Usually we see each other about 2 times a week out of school, because she comes to my soccer games. We've become pretty much best friends, and soon I will try to take our relationship to the next step.

I guess if there would ever be a good problem, this is it:
When it comes to hanging out, I think going out to movies/malls, late night ice cream runs, watching movies together at home, and other usual activities are lame, boring, and old. Let's rate these ideas a 2/10. I try really hard to think of fun and different things to do, and I've done a pretty job of it to this point. Let's rate my ideas a 9/10.

The problem is I am not sure if I can keep coming up with cool things to do. I am nervous about running out of things to do and becoming boring. I think she has raised her expectations and expects me to be creative. Is this a decent fear, or am I overreacting? Basically, is this going to turn into a problem for me?

and I've been on cb for about two years now, still haven't figured out how to search. I'm sure there are plenty of topics on dating/hanging out ideas, so if anyone can post the links, it'll be much appreciated.
 
 
Start new topic
Replies
MissHygienic
post Jan 27 2008, 07:12 PM
Post #2


Resource Center Tyrant
******

Group: Official Member
Posts: 2,263
Joined: Nov 2007
Member No: 593,306



You're overreacting. It's not about what you do, it's about the person you're with. She's not with you because of your creativity, for crying out loud. Instead of trying really hard to find something to occupy yourselves with something to do, occupy yourselves with each other.

Go on a walk; make dinner and talk. Something like that. Watching movies is stupid. All you do is sit there and stare a screen, where's the intimacy in that?
 
DoubleJ
post Jan 27 2008, 07:17 PM
Post #3


The Resident Drunk
*******

Group: Head Staff
Posts: 8,623
Joined: Nov 2007
Member No: 593,266



QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 27 2008, 07:12 PM) *
You're overreacting. It's not about what you do, it's about the person you're with. She's not with you because of your creativity, for crying out loud. Instead of trying really hard to find something to occupy yourselves with something to do, occupy yourselves with each other.

Go on a walk; make dinner and talk. Something like that. Watching movies is stupid. All you do is sit there and stare a screen, where's the intimacy in that?

Agreed completely, but if I may add, this is what guys get when they try to bust out of the gates with champagne as opposed to just water. You never ever, EVER, show a girl all the goods up front. If you do that, you get caught in the situation which you are in now. She is expecting you to bring her the top notch things every time, but you are instead running out of ideas. A word of advice young pup, would be to always start off with the small stuff and then work your way in. Try to relax, and remember what got you this girl in the first place. If you try to hard, it will be a turn off, and she will drop you faster than Jenna Jameson drops her panties.
 

Posts in this topic


Reply to this topicStart new topic
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: