Fishing for compliments |
 Jan 27 2008, 04:33 PM
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 cake or DEATH  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586  |
Let's say you're talking to a friend and she says something like, "OMG that girl is so pretty. Why can't I look like that
 ?"I used to reply with "No, you look good!" But I've just grown tired of constantly flattering her whenever she feels insecure. And then there's this scenario: If I tell her she's pretty, she'll get depressed and say "Ugh no I'm not. Don't say that." WTF. Seriously, I'm not here just so I can fondle your under-developed ego. What would you say to a friend in this situation? |
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Jan 27 2008, 05:29 PM
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I have a friend that does that all the time. She's always like "I'm fat" or "I'm so ugly" or "I'm not girlfriend material" blah. blah. blah.
And I used to be like "yeah I'm fat too." && then she'd yell at me. But now I just tell her to shut up. And that she's beautiful. |
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miyashu Fishing for compliments Jan 27 2008, 04:33 PM
synkro "maybe god didn't like you."
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jaeman "It's just better that way." Jan 27 2008, 08:47 PM |
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