Love?, How do you know if he/she loves you.... Options

[DeadlyKitten]

So how do you know? There are things my bf does that makes me feel he trully loves me but how can i be sure?? How can anyone be sure?

[teeners4]

when he tells you.

i kind of felt the same way too. my boyfriend and i started the same time around other couples from school. and they all said " i love you " in like a few months. by a year my boyfriend still didn't say it to me!

at times i THOUGHT i was in love. but i wasn't too sure, i'm also more traditional so i wasn't gonna say it until he says it. (stubborn of me, i know)

but now he's said it and he said he felt it for awhile and he doesn't care if i say it back or not cause he loves me anyways.

so it depends on you, if you're more "the guy has to say it first" or you truly feel it and want to say it, despite if he feels it yet or not. (it'll hurt, but at least you got your feelings out)

or if you guys are comfortable enough you can discuss what he thinks about love.

i know some guys don't say " i love you " until they KNOW they are the one they're gonna marry. i mean if you're in your teenagers, you're probably not gonna date for 10 years straight and marry...